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N: I'd love if my match was tall dark and handsome

Cute yeah...really into music, really into fashion, movies, latest trends

has to be really funny because I love to laugh and...

Yeah, soca, dancehall, yea he has to be into that

K: Somebody that can match my style

If not my height maybe a little shorter, but height don't really matter to me

has to really love music

Movies as well...

be able to

You know connect on a poetry level cause I really like poetry

have to be funny of course

Cute is....

Is...that is just stated

yea..

*RICE & PEAS THEME SONG*

N: Okay, so Jouvert or Carnival Tuesday ?

K: Neither

K: Gully or Gaza?

N: Gaza GAZA, yes all the way

N: Describe your most treasured clothing

K: Canali suit, a Canali suit, pinstripe double-breasted

K: Rate your fashion sense out of ten

N: Ten!

N: If you had to be with someone from a Caribbean island other than your own, which island would it be and why?

K: It don't really matter but I really like how Bahamas is right now, their beaches

That would be a plus to visit there like, every other month

K: who caused your last break up?

N: That was definitely him

N: What do you think your ex would warn me about it comes to you? & is it true

K: well last relationship was like 6 years ago

K: and...........she..........

K: kinda mental....

N: she or you?

K: no, she

So she would say anything & everything just to make me look bad

K: love, fame, or money?

N: I mean, love can gwan still... I'll tek da money, (haha) right now

N: pay my student loans you know?

K: Hear dat!

N: F***, Marry, Kill...

Okay, I'm gonna give you three female celebrities & you have to choose if you are gonna f***, marry, or kill them

So the first one is Kaci Fennel

K: who?

N: Miss Jamaica......you nuh know miss Jamaica?

K: What is her name?

N: Kaci, she's like brown with like short hair

K: Nah..

N: Wooooowww

N: Ok, you mus' know Yanique, Curvy Diva Yanique?

N: With the really big shape

N: woooooow, let's try again

N: Destra, of course you gonna know Destra

K: Not a fan

N: Not a fan????

K: no

N: wow, we're gonna have to rethink this whole situation right now

K: I mean I like her but...

I like her music but

How she is right now?

come, wait, old destra or new destra?

N: Younger Destra

K: Younger Destra? yeaaa, marry.

K: What is your favorite Caribbean accent on a man

N: Jamaican! (giggle)

N: I'm gonna guess you're from Trinidad

K: Yea...guess you're from Jamaica

Da was a good one

N: Um your name, I'm gonna guess his name is

Jermaine

K:...yours...Crystal

N: I'm gonna guess that you're 25.

K: Nah, you 24

N: Gonna guess that you're into

Fashion? you're in the field of fashion maybe, some sort of like creative though.

K: I'll guess the same for you, but more along the lines of blogging & make up & stuff like that

N: I think my match is wearing

I mean

Jeans, a t-shirt, maybe like a jacket over that?

He's probably dark, tall? hopefully? maybe?

Maybe a blue shirt, white shirt, hair..short hair with the beard?

K: Seeing that you're a vlogger

I'll go like light-skinned, caramel skin?

Curly hair

Height...probably like 5'6...5'5 probably

Outift, cause it's a little cold right now, I'll probably guess a jeans, dark blue jeans

With a jacket a maybe a denim jackets....and like a black top

N: Based on everything so far I feel like we kind of have

The same things in common, we kind of like the same things

so that

Would want me to find out more about what you're like?

so yea

K: I mean same for me especially the part that you are vlogger that I always

liked that lifestyle even though I'm in fashion, and I want to get into it probably wouldn't

I love a Jamaica accent of course

& what you say Gaza?

N: haha yea

K: I mean back in school I was a Gaza guy, I was never for the gully life, always Gaza.

yeah, of course I would wanna know more

N: I cant even take it off

N: wowwww...there we go

Hi

So

Yeah, I said you're from Trinidad & you are from Trinidad

K: Well you're from Jamaica obviously, Jamaican accent

You did not get my name right

My name is Nichelle but with an N.

K: Mines is Kairon, Kai-Ron, with an O

Kai for short

N: makes sense, thats better actually

I'm 23

K: When you turning 24?

January, next year

K: Oh you're a babyyy

N: Wow, I don't think so, no

K: I'm 27

Wooooww, as if you're THAT old

K: No well if you know Caribbean twitter, there's an under 25

N: That is true! yess yess that is true

N: but we're still in the same generation

& I did get the field right but what exactly do you do though?

K: I'm a blogger

& I am a Creative director of my own company

& a stylist

N: that's cool! blogger on like what? your own blog?

K: yeah, own instagram & my own website

N: nice nice

K: What kind of well I'm guessing curly hair vlogger

N: Well no it's mostly like makeup tutorials, fashion, stuff like that, but yeah like it's pretty much the same things like Instagram, youtube.

K: I figured as much

N: I went to FIT

K: I now finishing Parsons

N: Parsons? trash

K: wow!

K: You going FIT right now?

N: No, I went to FIT

K: then you probably wouldn't know Levi

N: What major was he in?

N: I'd probably...definitely cause we have a lot of things in common we basically kinda just do the same thing

so we definitely can relate on a lot of things and

Yeah, why not?

right? why not?

You nah do nuttin' so

You doh have a girl, Nooo

Well yeah

Curly hair girls actually my type, like spot on my type

The only thing is that, I never actually date a curly hair girl. I always date, everybody else

N: But how does that work?

K: Is not me personally it just that...it just so happens, but curly hair is my type

Yeah! the whole bloggin' an' stuff, whole fashion

That's literally like I want somebody to mesh with like me on that level too

You know because it have a lot of people that

They say they into it but...

N: Not really like when you actually into it and you start it

And then they're like oh you don't have time for me, like you can't do this, you can't do that..

K: not only that too.. it's just

Actually connect to somebody that's in the field rather than somebody that's saying they are a blogger or something like that

Just because they can dress well. Yeah...I know a lot of those

K: So.. that is a plus, I would

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Why Don't Guys Ask Me Out? | Christian Dating Advice - Duration: 10:53.

Hey girls! Tiffany dawn here, and I have pulled my hubby James back into this

video. He's so kind. He's on his lunch break for work right now, eating and

I asked him if he would just kind of chat with us. So um basically this video

is for girls like me, who when I was in high school and college, I had these- and

most of my 20s- I had these like three questions: Number one, why am I still

single? Number two, why doesn't anybody ask me out?

And number three, why doesn't anybody like me? And I just felt kind of like

left out, like all my girlfriends--- Do you mean by guys, right? Oh yeah. Sometimes

people say that, but what they really mean is the guys that I think I like,

don't like me back. Right, exactly. So we're gonna talk about that. Today I have

four tips for you, and James is gonna add his two cents in, and these four tips are

just things that can maybe help, like if you're kind of feeling stuck, like

nobody's--no guys are interested in you, these are four things that you can try

that might actually help. So tip number one is be open, like be friendly. I

realized that I kind of was just walking around with this like stone cold face

toward guys. And really I was so scared of rejection that I-- like if I liked a

guy, there was no way I was gonna let him know I was interested by my actions,

because I was so scared of being rejected and I just couldn't handle that.

And so I just kind of was mean or like cold toward them. And I remember like in

later years actually, this guy who I'd actually liked back then, we'd gotten

reconnected. And as we were talking, he was like, "ou know I almost asked you out

back then," or, "I wanted to ask you out back then." And I was like, "What? Why didn't you?"

And he goes, "I didn't think there was any chance you'd say yes, based on like

how you treated me." I was like, Ohhh... That's such a good story.

I feel like this happens all the time between guys and girls and it's kind of

like this emotional game of chicken. It's like, "Well I I would like to ask her out

but I really don't want to be rejected so I'm just gonna like observe and maybe

I can like see the signs if she likes me." Yeah it takes a lot for a guy to like,

to ask a girl out. Guys hear stories about rejections, guys have probably been

rejected a couple times, like we're scared.

So the friendlier you can be, the easier it's gonna be for us to be like,

talking to her, talking to her, and, "Do you want to gout for ice cream?" You sort of

have to like squeeze it out. Yeah I don't think girls realize that enough,

like how scary it is for guys, because like guys seem like they have no emotion

sometimes. That's not true; we just don't know how to express it.

Yeah so I think that's really important to know. And I found like the more

approachable we can be in our demeanor-- like even ask some of your honest

friends, "How do I come across to strangers or to guys? Like am I coming

across like the mean person, or am I like smiling and like open to talking with

them, and like easier to talk to?" -- I think that just makes it a whole lot easier

for a guy to work up the courage to ask you out. Yes okay yes. So tip number two

is expand your horizons a little bit. So I always had like this certain kind of

guy that I wanted to go out with. I like I wanted to go out with a guy who was six

feet tall -- not a James look-alike by the way. Well in some ways; I mean you have dark hair

and dark eyes which I wanted, and like tan-ish or olive skin, you know, but

you're not 6'3", which is what I wanted. Nope. It'd be nice if I was. Well it's kind of nice that

you're not, because like guys I dated who were over six foot tall, like trying to

kiss them was like -- it put a kink in my neck. That's why you go to the chiropractor so much now! It makes sense!

And I wanted him to play guitar -- nope -- and be a worship leader

and like a youth leader and stuff like that, so I definitely was looking for

like this very specific type of guy. When I was in my 20s, I was like: Wow I'm going

to all these different events and I'm meeting all these different guys and I

keep coming home and saying there's no good guys out there. But what I'm really

saying is there's no good guys who are 6'3" and play guitar and lead worship. And that

might have been true that there were no single ones left. But like I was way too narrow

in my focus and I really needed to expand my horizons. But I think it's easy

to like narrow our options so much and be looking for something so particular

that we pass by amazing guys. Now it's important to be attracted to the person,

absolutely, but like you can be attracted to more

than one type of person. Mm-hmm. That is true. And I know even one of my one of my

friends who's single is, I think most people would agree, is a pretty

attractive human being. And all of Tiffany's friends

want to meet him. That's so true. But they don't know him at all! They just see his

picture on social media and they're like, "Yeah! We want to meet him!" But they really, they have no idea what he's like.

Yea, like it's very shallow. Like guys do the same thing. But like, you

can't-- you're not truly gonna be attracted to someone until you know them.

Personal interaction is so important. It's important for girls to realize too,

like we get frustrated with guys because we're like, "Why do you guys just

go after the cute, popular girls? Like it's not fair, why isn't anyone

interested in me?" But girls we do the same thing to guys so many times! Well I

think every person is sort of inclined to do that on some level. That's true.

And it's just something to be like really careful about and just aware of. I realized I

didn't even notice other guys in the room if they didn't meet my mold and I

had to open my eyes and literally like open my peripheral vision to be able to

notice these other guys, and even get to know them. And I'm so glad I did because

I really like being married to him. Yeah. Still can't play guitar. Tip number three

is like go out in places where you can kind of meet more people.

Different kinds of people, yeah. Like get involved in different circles.

Because I think it's really easy to just like want to spend all your time- fill it

all with girls nights. And that's fine, but if that's all you do with your time,

where do you expect to meet guys? Yeah Or get to know guys. We do not attend girls nights. Yeah.

That's true. You have man cave nights. I'm always like, "Where are all the guys?" They're all

together, all the good guys. If you find one, there's a pack of them! I'm like

convinced of it. But yeah there is some truth to that. So I think it's important

to like actually like get to know different people, like hang out with

friends from work, hang out with from church, hang out with friends from

school, and just like, you know, bring a girlfriend with you and go and just join

them, and get to know new people and other circles. And kind of - I don't

know - it also expands your horizon. Try to make - try to regularly meet new people.

Many of them you won't connect with and that's totally fine, but you'll probably

end up making some new friends. Yeah and that can be really scary for someone who

isn't an extrovert. Like James is 100% extroverted. I'm not.

"Whoo, new people!" Yeah for real though. It's like the Energizer Bunny. But for me like I don't

love just meeting new people all the time; it's

super draining and nerve-wracking. But if you plan for it. Yes. And you don't do it

super regularly, and you just do it like once every other week. And if it has

like structure. So like I would join - I remember joining this Bible study for a

while and it was like with a different church and I had a couple of friends who

went, so I went. And I was very clear, like I'm only here for this

session, and I was very honest with myself and with my friends: I was only there

to meet any cute guys there. I shouldn't say just cute. It was true at the time.

But to meet guys, I should have - I should have been just guys - yeah. And then

tip number four is a surprising one, which is: you can ask the guy out. That's

totally fine. We are fine with that. I speak for the

entire male race. Not really, but sort of. You know it's a great if a girl asks you

out. If she like doesn't say, "Would you like to go on a date with me," but more

like, "Hey you do want to like study sometime or do you want to get some

coffee," you know. You're like, "Oh they do like me!" It's great. It's like a less subtle clue

that they can start to pick up on. Yeah, yes, we don't do subtle. Yeah I

definitely speak for the male race there. And I think some sometimes girls get

kind of hung up on the idea of, "But the guy has to pursue me." Yeah but being

pursued is like something you see over a period of time, like months. Like if you

look back over the last four months and you don't feel like you're being pursued,

that's one thing. Who asks who on the first date? Not a big deal.

Yeah and really like I think both people should also be pursuing each other.

Excuse me as I'm hiccuping. If only one person is pursuing, even if it is the guys, that's

gonna be a miserable relationship. So those are our four tips.

In closing, let me just say, like, girls if you feel this way, there are so

many girls who feel this way. I want you to know you're not alone. And guys - yeah -

on a serious note. Cause like I think I think it's easy to think we're the only

ones left. Like I'm the only one who's never been asked out, and the only one

who's never had a boyfriend, like what's wrong with me? And you're not the only

one. There are so many girls who feel that way and I personally know like

several of them, and they're amazing girls and they are in that same place.

And it's tempting to ask like, "What am I doing wrong?" And I think if you're doing

these four tips and you're open to, you know, what God has for you, and not

kind of hiding in fear, I think you're fine. And also that like, your worth

can't come from guys, which sounds so cheesy and church talk-y, but like truly,

it's real. Like even being married I always thought you know being married,

like then I'll have this husband who like helps me find all my worth and he

like loves me so much. And even though James is a wonderful husband and does

love me so much, like when I try to look to him for my sense of like worth and

who I am, it like falls short. Like he cannot give that to me. I have to find

that in God. And I know that it's hard to hear when you're single cause you're like,

yeah but it's easier at least when you're married. And yeah it's nice to be

married and I love that like affirmation from him, but we - at the core it cannot

fill any part, any void in me. And so I think like right now, like finding that

in Christ is huge, even though it sounds really cheesy, it's huge. Yeah and I

think all of us are sort of on different timelines and no one timeline is better

or worse than another. You know sometimes we think, "It'd be so cool to marry

someone, you know, your highschool sweetheart!" And that is wonderful.

But also for people like Tiffany and I who met in our late 20s, it's been

wonderful for us too. And we think, "If we dated in high school, we would have

fought for like ten years!" We would not have even lasted a day. And like we got to

have so many adventures in the meantime, like you got to travel around South

America for a year and like build a tree house air B&B kind of thing and like go

on like work on a sheep farm in Patagonia and like all that. And Tiffany got

to travel and tour, and you know that yeah, you know we just had amazing

experiences in our single years with God. So I just want to encourage you like,

don't feel like you're being left out, even though it feels like that sometimes.

um I really think that this season can also be a gift even though it's hard.

So I have some videos linked down below about that. One is what I wish I knew

when I was single, and one is to all the single girls, and they kind of share my

own experiences more with this. So girls I hope that those four tips can help in

some way, and that this can encourage you. Comment down below if there's anything

you would add to this list and we will see you again soon.

Love you girls! Bye. Bye.

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