- I heard from a single woman and her sister
who said she's experienced a different level of frustration
looking for love because she's a twin.
So let me start, where do you typically go to meet men?
- I go everywhere.
So I'm usually out at some type of professional networking
or social event or community event,
I'm out everywhere.
The strange part about that is
typically, the guy who hits on me is usually,
it's really they're approaching her.
- And you have someone?
- I do. - She does.
- Yes, I do.
- Okay, so since guys approach you more than Stacy,
have you ever tried to play like, wing woman?
Set her up?
- I am always in wing woman mode.
When we enter into an event, or an outing,
or any place we are, I'm constantly scanning the room.
I know what Stacy's checklist is and
when I'm talking to these guys or engaging them,
I can tell in the first few minutes whether they
meet this checklist.
- Tell me a little bit about this checklist.
What are you looking for in a man?
- So it's not that complicated of a checklist.
Somebody who is
handsome, and somebody who knows how to handle
a successful woman,
someone who's emotionally stable, who likes to travel,
who likes to have fun, somebody who wants to have children.
(laughs)
Somebody who's looking to be in a serious relationship,
somebody who's family oriented.
(audience laughter)
- [Steve] You gotta know all--
- Just the basics.
- Them ain't basics.
- [Stacy] Those are just basics.
- Well, I mean, but let me ask you something.
The problem may be
you can't ask a guy this on the first date.
- Okay.
- Most men want a family.
Just not right as we're dating the first day.
- Okay.
- You know, he doesn't know that.
You try to get that uncovered right away?
- It's not necessarily if I'm asking them
do they want to have a family off the bat,
but some people know that they don't want to have children.
And I do.
- Well let's do it like this.
I found three great
single guys from Dallas
who we vetted
and we think might be a good match for you, Stacy.
- Okay.
- Are you ready to meet 'em?
- Yes, I am.
- Alright.
(audience applause)
Well gentlemen, come on out.
(audience woos)
So, Stacy, normally I'd just have you ask the question,
but since your sister Stephanie
is on this, I'm gonna let her ask these guys
some questions too.
So let's start with Stacy.
I'm gonna let you ask the first question.
What's your question for Jay?
- For what in life do you feel the most grateful for?
- I would say family.
I'd have to say I'm grateful for my family.
Just the support system
in the work that I do, working in teenagers
sometimes can be mentally and emotionally draining
and so I usually rely on them to fill me up
and so I'm really grateful for them.
(audience applause)
- So Stacey,
what is the most important lesson your parents taught you?
- Most important lesson my parents taught me,
from my mother, she taught me sacrifice.
So I learned from her how to sacrifice and
you know, and go for things that you really want.
And from my father, I learned
how to be clean.
My father was very clean.
He always dressed clean.
Not flashy, but neat and stylish
and those are the two traits I
took from my parents.
- Okay.
(audience applause)
- I thought you meant like he washed.
(laughter)
- That too, that too,
that too.
- Alright, Quintius,
do you see yourself in your current profession
for the rest of your life?
- I don't wanna work for somebody for the rest of my life.
So eventually, I wanna be incorporated doing the same field
I do and I wanna have my own team.
- Awesome.
(audience applause)
- Jay, what is the longest relationship
you've been in and why did it end?
- The longest relationship I was in was about
two and a half years.
It ended because I was young.
Just emotionally wasn't available.
And so I was in my twenties and so
it ended because it just wasn't emotionally ready.
- Stacey, what role does family play in your life?
- Family for me plays
two separate roles.
Like, my mother and my father and my siblings,
they motivate me to be a better person and to
make a better life for them.
And my children, I wanna inspire them to
believe that they could, you know,
be anythig and it doesn't matter when they do it,
just inspire them to show them that
you know, they can be whatever they wanna be.
(audience applause)
- Okay.
Are you a spiritual person?
And is it necessary for your partner
to share the same belief system as you?
- I think that it is necessary.
I'm a Christian and I feel like
the Bible says God is love and love is God so
if someone doesn't have that relationship with God,
they don't know how to love me.
(audience cheering)
(laughter)
- Okay.
I'ma ask a question for you.
Q, what do you do in your spare time?
- I think about the future a lot so
basically, I have to build toward what my end goal is.
I want everything to be set for my family
when I do have one.
That's pretty much what I think about a lot.
- Stacey, what about you?
- I love to do music.
I grew up playing the saxophone
so whenever I have time, I love to
put on a record and transcribe a solo
and just try to challenge myself through that.
- Jay, what do you do in your spare time?
- My spare time now, I'm currently writing my fourth book
and so I journal a lot,
take a lotta notes, do a lot of people watching
'cause I love to write, you know,
about my feelings and emotions and thoughts like that.
(audience cheering)
- Listen to me.
This is a great group of guys and I'm gonna tell you why.
'Cause if you listen to their answers,
you find out about
what's in their heart.
So who's it gonna be?
Is it gonna be Jay, Stacey, or Quintius?
Y'all talk it over and I'll handle this.
Look, women know how to whisper and everything.
Dudes would be so loud.
I think number two, dawg.
(laughter)
Oh, he got a sax, man.
We need somebody else in the band.
Well what about Quintius?
No, he'd be praying all the time.
(laughter)
(audience applause)
Ladies, the decision is yours.
We got twin sisters gonna pick it,
which one of these gentlemen will you be
getting to know better?
(suspenseful music)
- Steve, I'd like to get to know Jay.
(audience cheering)
- Jay, come on over.
Go over there and meet her.
That's good.
Thank you, Stacey, thank you, Q.
Good guys, man.
Congratulations.
Good luck.
Keep us posted on how it goes.
We'll be right back, everybody.
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