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Okay, what a midlife crisis looks like, my midlife crisis.
Well, I am on my way to go have a date. Okay so I finished that date-that was
weeks ago. It wasn't too bad but there definitely seemed to be a lack of
personality again. So I was wondering like maybe somebody's-some of
these guys are just so nervous about dating or something, I don't know, they
don't know what to say or do so I figured I'd give him a chance and I
would go out with him again. So here we are, four dates,four. Nothing spectacular.
Then they get a text message from this guy, who still is lacking personality. I
randomly get this text message from him, he's gonna have a birthday, right, he
says, "I feel I should tell you something. Tomorrow is my birthday and I'm not
turning 51." So I sent two question marks-what do you
mean? Right? So he sends back, "actually plus 11."
Okay, so I send him to more question marks. He says that he informed me of 50 to
"reduce the shock factor."
He said he was actually going to be 62 the following day. So it didn't take me
long. So I responded with something more than question marks and my response to that
was "happy birthday. I only have room in my life for honest people. I wish you
luck in your future."
So I understand, when we get a certain age, we start lying about our ages I mean... Not me,
I didn't. I have never lied about my age. I think maybe it's because I can't
believe how old I am so I have to keep repeating it, I have to say how old I am
or, I mean like, I just don't even know it. Because I'm 50 and I really am 50. So
it's one thing to lie a little bit about your age I guess. I was talking about
this with a girl at work one day and she was like "I could understand a year,
two years, three years" she said "four years is even pushing it." But we
looked at each other and it was like, but more than a decade?!
Really? You thought it would just help to reduce the shock factor? This guy knew
that I have thing for age as far as dating goes. I'm like, I don't know, maybe
I'm too stringent here, maybe I'll get off this, I don't know, but
it's five years younger, five years older. I've got this 10 year span. So that's
probably why he lied to me so in my eyes, I'm like, well then you were being
deceitful to push my boundaries to get me to try to do something that you know
I didn't want to do. So there's that, first of all. Second of all, maybe I do have
this age range-this-this thing for age.
But if somebody's like outside of that age range and
there's a spark or whatever, then there's a spark, I'm not gonna ignore it. And I
think if somebody wants to date me-let's see if we can end up with some
relationship here or whatever. First of all, you need to be honest. Second of all, do
it on your own merit. You're not gonna get it on your own merit if you're
bullshitting or if you're lying. Of course you know at some point that would
have came out. I guess like, you know, I'm happy it came out after 4 dates. Like, not like
the dates were spectacular and not like he had much in the way personality but
like I said, I thought, well, maybe it's me and I would just give it a little time
to get to know the guy and for him to relax and maybe some personality will
come out-because my God! People have to have personality in their mid life? Don't
they? I think I do. All the people I work with will say that I have, all my friends
and family will say that I have. I think! You really can't tell how old somebody
is to look at them especially in this age, right? Because I mean there are some
guys and women that are 50 years old and they look like they're in their sixties.
And I'm sure you can think of a few. And then there are some men or women that are
fifty years old and they look like they're in their 40s- early 40s at
best. Probably could mistake them for their upper 30s. So you can't tell how
old somebody is just to look at them. So this guy didn't look like he was gonna
be 62, not anywhere close to it. So he carries his age very well. That's a plus
factor for him but don't lie to me! And I think what's funny is that one of the
conversations that he and I had it was about that, like I'll just cut somebody
out if, you know, they lie to then just, I'm done because I'm in a midlife
crisis and I don't have to take any bullshit including lying. All right, I got
that out in another video. So I just wanted to share that thought, that experience on
that date or a couple of dates. When am I gonna find somebody with some
personality? Are there any out there? Oh my God. So now I'm like, gotta keep going,
do this again, back at the old drawing board, I don't know.
Let's see what I can rustle up for the next date.
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