Nine Unmistakable Signs You're Dating An INTJ
INTJs are the rational, strategic planners of the Myers-Briggs world.
They hold high personal standards for both themselves and others.
This analytical type finds themselves drawn to relationships with other intuitive-dominant
types who place a high value on intellectual exploration.
If the person you're dating exhibits most of the following behaviors, chances are you've
got an INTJ on your hands.
So, here are 9 Unmistakable Signs You're Dating An INTJ:
1.
They're taking forever to make a move.
INTJs are not impulsive people.
In fact, it could take them years to properly decide whether or not the two of you make
sense together.
First they have to discern whether or not they are attracted to you.
Then they have to assess your suitability as a partner.
Last but certainly not least (in terms of time allocation), they have to form an action
plan regarding which steps they should take to win you over.
This process doesn't happen overnight.
It takes a long-ass time for an INTJ to make a move but when they do, you can bet your
ass they're serious about it.
2.
You feel a little bit like they're studying you.
INTJs are interested in people, what makes them tick, what pushes their buttons and how
they operate on a rational and emotional level.
In the initial stages of getting to know an INTJ it can feel like they're constantly
analyzing you, most conversations are focused on you and you are constantly hearing the
words "Interesting," or "I see."
It takes a bit for the INTJ to shift the focus onto him or herself, they like to listen first
and reveal their opinions second.
3.
They don't take well to changing plans.
If you've planned a dinner date with an INTJ on Friday, please, for the love of God,
do not call them up Thursday night and say you'd rather go to a party.
INTJs plan out their every move, they have probably been contemplating your date on Friday
since Monday.
Changing the plan at the last minute is offsetting to them, and will almost never go over well.
4.
They understand your motivations better than you do.
We all sugar coat our own core feelings, it's how we stay emotionally stable.
The INTJ however, isn't interested in sugar coating anything.
They analyze people exactly as they are, the good, the bad and the downright terrifying.
They're often able to identify what it is that inspires and drives you on a level that
even you aren't aware of.
It's a little bit creepy at first but it becomes incredibly useful over time.
Just go with it.
They get you and that is usually a good thing.
5.
They react best to direct communication.
INTJs have no patience for passive-aggressive comments or subtle remarks.
If something is amiss in the relationship, they appreciate being told point-blank what
is wrong and what the best course of action would be to fix it.
INTJs want to maintain harmony in a relationship, they simply don't care to achieve it through
guesswork.
6.
They don't argue from their emotions.
To an INTJ, every conflict is a puzzle to be solved.
Though they can get their feathers ruffled just like any other type, their first reaction
is always to break down a given situation, analyze what is or isn't working and strive
to improve upon the existing method of operation.
Sound a little technical?
Because it is.
INTJs use logic to deal with just about every component of their lives, which means they're
going to need a bit of reflection time before they can tell you how they feel about a conflict.
7.
They do, however, experience surprisingly strong emotions.
Once an INTJ has decided that you are the partner for them, they become highly emotionally
invested in the relationship.
Though they aren't always the masters of showing it, INTJs are emotional, even romantic,
at heart.
They show their love by devoting themselves to the relationship and by tirelessly working
to improve it.
8.
Sex is as mental as it is physical.
To the INTJ, arousal is not purely instinctual.
Attraction begins in the mind and the best way to get them in the mood is to mention
a sexual fantasy that gets them thinking hard.
INTJs are creative, kinky lovers who view some parts of sex as a challenge.
They want to constantly improve their game and continually get their partner off in better,
more creative ways.
This type enjoys the mental connection that comes with sexual intimacy just as much as
they enjoy the raw physical component.
9.
When it ends, they need closure.
INTJs are balanced out by Ne dominant types, that is, ENFPs and ENTPs.
The tricky part of this equation is that both types are a little less relationship-oriented
than the serious INTJ.
When a partner leaves the relationship with little warning, the INTJ has a difficult time
moving on until they can fully understand the cause for the upheaval.
Relationships are a puzzle just like everything else and the INTJ wants to solve it before
they can finally put it to rest.
All in all, that's the 9 Unmistakable Signs You're Dating An INTJ.
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