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you guys know I'm gonna take a break for a really long time but I'm okay and I'll

be okay I always yeah it was really it was tense

she was mad at me and I said I'm sorry I won't say anything again I won't say

anything again that was Trisha Paytas and jason nash are they getting back

together I'm about to explain why it won't work what is up everybody this is

Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the

solution and if you are new to my channel my channel is all about mental

health and a huge part of our mental health is the relationships that we'd

get into the relationships that we get back into the relationships that we

pursue that affects our mental health more than anything so many people so

many people struggle with their mental health because they keep getting into

bad relationships so in this video I'm gonna be talking about two pretty baby

youtubers jason nash and Trisha Paytas so a few things a few disclaimers real

quick the first one is those of you who are

new to my channel I do not make these videos in any way to drag anybody to

talk or anything like that I am somebody who gives tough love though okay but the

goal of my videos is never because I think that they're gonna explode or even

these big youtubers are gonna see them my videos are to help you my videos are

to help my audience so when I talk about the mental health of different youtubers

and what they're struggling with I hope that you can take lessons from it I hope

that you can take a step back look at your life and say oh do I do these

things am i somebody who's been you know getting into bad relationships how can I

really what I'm doing and maybe improve my mental health so these videos are to

help you the second disclaimer I threw out there is time is a very valuable and

precious asset especially for me okay six years ago I almost died so the way I

live my life one of the ways that I keep good mental health is that I do not

waste time I refuse to waste my time so the reason why I'm

saying that is jason nash and Trisha Paytas have made a lot of videos back

and forth about their breakup okay and most of them are anywhere between 20

minutes on the low-end 40 minutes from the medium side and over an hour on the

high side and in no way am I going to sit through and watch those okay I skip

through got the gist read the comments that's what I'm going to be taking and

putting in here so I'm not gonna have a million clips I'm gonna use a couple but

that's it I'll provide the links to their videos down below maybe just a

couple videos because there's a lot of them but again I'm not going to waste my

time watching it especially when half the video is like this I thought I was

so sure I wanted to go earlier this morning and then

I'm treating them sobered but so those of you who are all up in the youtube

drama sphere like I like to do this is the the too long

dinner rate type just offense okay Jason Nash is one of the Friends of David

Gilbert david dobrik is a huge youtuber he started out on vine very big jason

nash it's part of this little fun bunch okay

he's about 45 years old hangs out with these kids that you know go for it man

you do you okay twitter penis she is somebody with millions of subscribers

herself and she makes a lot of videos and i could do a million videos just

about the mental health of Trisha Paytas alone the symptoms that I see not to

give early diagnosis but just when I see that she struggles with but a lot of

people do follow Trisha Paytas and she documents just about everything going on

in her life and sometimes it's pretty much a hot mess again like when I go

through this video one of the ways is I'm making this video is because these

two were me okay I used to be this person one of the ways I've sort of this

channel is cuz I have a lot of lived experience being a crazy person I have a

lot of lived experience and getting into terrible relationships alright so when I

watch these things now that I'm doing much better mentally I watch them and

like man that used to be me and hopefully hopefully some people can

learn from these lessons okay so anyways what happened with these two is Trisha

has said to him you know she can make fun of her weight but please don't make

fun of my weight please don't talk about my weight okay so in Jason's first

response video he talks about how he's had to tiptoe around the subject and he

apologizes and all these things talks about her diet and things like that she

gets very mad upset and he says sorry sorry sorry by the way first big red fly

if a lot of your relationship is based around tiptoeing around different

subjects especially if you can't get it through your head what topics do not

discuss or how to approach them properly this is a huge red flag of when this

relationship isn't going to work so anyways the reason this breakup happened

was these we're doing some kind of show some kind

of reality show and Jason made a joke Trisha gets really really upset about

this and she makes a video something along the lines with the title of he

called me fat and in this video she is just a crying mess it's like an hour

long and she's talking about how he called her fat and she can't change for

him and you know she doesn't want to eat around him and she feels uncomfortable

so what are these things is if you're if you're the person in this situation

where you feel like this especially when it's a new relationship if you feel like

this person doesn't accept you and your body and stuff maybe maybe it's not the

person you should be dating but there's also the fact that you have a lot of

work to do okay so for example me I've made some videos about my weight my

weight loss and stuff like that this is a hundred percent for me okay I realize

that my body is a result of my choices alright I have to accept it I do not get

offended when people make fun of my weight or anything I even when people

leave comments I like laugh with them like whatever like you're not telling me

anything I don't know I am overweight but if you're struggling with this like

you need to look within yourself and say okay how do I deal with this because it

is an insane expectation to go around thinking that nobody's going to comment

or say anything and stuff like that if you don't like the way you look start

making small baby steps towards the solution now part of this this whole

series going back and forth is how they talk about how there's someone love

they're so in love they're so in love she loves them so much they've been

together for six months okay about six months I believe it might have known

each other a little bit longer alright now this isn't something this

isn't something I'm gonna you know diagnose I'm not a clinician or anything

when I talk about symptoms of different mental illnesses like when I talk about

borderline personality disorder these extreme emotions right extreme emotions

and one of those extreme emotions is I don't just like somebody I love this

person okay and even if you don't have something like BPD is something to watch

out for because when you feel these intense emotions what happens is it

clouds you to all of the defects of the other person because you just love the

feeling of being wanted okay so not only are they saying that they're in

love but like Jason even got a tattoo or Trish's name by the way this is not

mental health related but I'm not a very superstitious person but getting a

tattoo of your boyfriend and girlfriend's name is like extreme bad

luck just from what I've seen alright so anyways after all these back and forth

and stuff like that we've slowly seen them start talking again ok a little bit

here a little bit there things are calming down and suddenly they started

talking about in these videos is that you know not only are they gonna meet up

in Boston and things like that and she's gonna hang out with his family and all

that but they say this they say that one of the main issues with their

relationship is that they film together they're both youtubers and when they

make videos together that's the source of the problem so the first one of the

first issues I want to point out with this is that is that when you start to

lie to yourself in this in this deceptive way like you pick out this

really trivial weird thing and you say oh that was the problem by the way I've

done it too and I'm thinking about dedicating a week to all the terrible

relationships I've been in and stuff like that and a lot of it had to do with

me and my thought process of my mental health make believing that the filming

together was the issue let's say they're right let's say filming together was the

issue well these next clips I'm going to show you is them filming together so

that's another issue when you acknowledge a problem but then you still

do it anyways they literally film together in the same

videos where they're talking about one of their main issues is filming together

okay so whether they were in a mental health

space of self-deception or not they are doing the exact thing that they said was

a problem and what happens with this is that you slowly start to do it thinking

that you can do that toxic thing again and it won't be an issue and then the

definition of insanity happens doing the same thing over and over and expecting

different results so like I said I'm not gonna use a million clips but I do just

want to point this out because there's a lot of self-deception with these two

getting back together but they don't no they don't they didn't in their defense

they weren't privy to all the inside information

like I was texting with you during that time so I knew that you know and I will

stay also I also knew that you weren't gonna I also knew that you weren't gonna

like starts burning lies about me or anything like that

alright so Jason ash doesn't think that Trisha is running around but he lies

about him that's cool but let's take a look back at his very first response

video and see how many times he thinks is lying here at all

she's perfect size for me I do not care I I don't care what she looks like and

the fact that she's twisting it this way to say that because I'm fat because I'm

gross because in fact it's it it's just not true

whoo this is the part in those in her video that isn't true or she changed

I apologize that's another lie I definitely apologize I apologize several

times this is something that we do I'm gonna link in the info card a video I

did about the the spoiled milk philosophy and long story short spoiled

no philosophy is this getting back with an ex is like taking spoiled milk out of

the fridge drinking it putting it back in the fridge

coming back to it days weeks or months later pulling it back out and thinking

it's gonna be good again that is insane and that's what we're

watching here and it's an interesting part of human nature so some of you know

I work at a drug and alcohol treatment center and it's very common with drug

addicts and alcoholics but it's also part of human nature and it's very

fascinating but it destroys our mental health and here's what I mean you start

to lie to yourself about the past you start to minimize things you say oh it

wasn't that bad oh no I didn't mean it like this

oh no she wasn't really lying oh okay you know and all these things and maybe

we'll never know who's lying who's not but when you start moving back

towards that relationship that bad relationship and lying to yourself it

wasn't that bad you know things were okay this is gonna work like it's not

it's not I often say this when you think that you're gonna change somebody when

you think that you're gonna give in this relationship and wait for somebody to

change think about how hard it is for you

to change what is the last time you made a major life change I'm not talking

about going to the gym I'm not talking about dieting I'm not talking about

moving to a different city I'm talking about like pure like personality change

like it is very hard it is very rare for someone to go through this experience

where they do this complete change so when you're getting into a relationship

and you're waiting around for the other person to change and Bend and mold into

the person you think they should be or the think they the person they can be

you are wasting your time and again time is very valuable all right I often ask

my clients in groups and there's 60 to 70 people in these large groups that I

do I say how many people in this room have spent far too much time in a

relationship waiting for the other person to change and you see about 75 to

90 percent of the hands go up quit wasting time we have one life to live

quit wasting time waiting for somebody to change there are over seven billion

people on this planet sometimes it's just the time to sit back and have this

moment of clarity where you're like oh my god maybe this isn't the right person

for me maybe I should spend my time looking for somebody else okay so in my

opinion my prediction this is not gonna work they're gonna break up again they

might break up multiple times and it's not gonna work out very well so again I

ask you to look at yourself and see what's your experience with getting back

with exes what's lying to yourself minimizing the

toxic relationship that you were in minimizing the past and the stories and

the craziness and the chaos how often do you do this and has it helped you or has

it hurt you okay but anyways I hope you enjoyed this video and if you liked it

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For more infomation >> WHY TRISHA PAYTAS AND JASON NASH WON'T WORK (ARE THEY DATING AGAIN) - Duration: 14:09.

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Dating, Marriage, and Women (in Ancient Japan) | History of Japan 13 - Duration: 6:48.

If you think dating today is hard, imagine how it must have been back in the Kofun Period

of Japan.

We have all kinds of options today...dating apps, huge cities full of people, body pillows...but

they didn't have any of that back then.

So what did they do?

What was marriage like?

How did they view sex?

What role did prostitution play in society?

There is a lot of evidence that Kofun Japan had a pretty matriarchal society, much more

matriarchal than in later periods.

At the very least, women's status in society were similar to that of men.

They had a lot of female clan leaders, even as late as the 6th century.

The main kami of Japan, Amaterasu, was female.

Shamans, who were religious leaders that revealed the will of the kami, were female.

Remember that Queen Himiko in the Yayoi Period was a shaman priestess.

There were a number of female empresses up until the end of the 8th century.

Early Japan had this pattern of dual male-female rule.

If they were not married, the female was usually the older one.

The female ruler usually handled the religious business, and the male ruler handled the secular

side of things.

We see this pattern all over the place.

For example, in Shinto mythology, Izanagi and Izanami created the islands of Japan.

They were a husband and wife pair, also brother and sister.

Amaterasu is the kami of the Sun, and her counterpart, Tsukiyomi, is the kami of the

Moon.

Queen Himiko had her brother, and later Empresses had a male relative (like a husband, brother,

or nephew) who shouldered the burden of the throne with them.

Some historians suggest that the Japanese imported this practice from the continent.

The Silla Dynasty in the Korean Peninsula also seemed to have this double male-female

rule.

We found a Korean tomb where a king and queen were buried, but it was the queen who wore

the crown and flaunted all kinds of shiny jewelry.

The Liao in China traced royal blood through both male and female lines.

Some of this matriarchal mindset lived on to the modern era, where if there were no

suitable male heir, the throne could be passed on to a female.

This practice only recently stopped during the Meiji Period, when women were forbidden

from sitting on the throne.

Here's another sign of the matriarchy

(Oh no...the matriarchy...)

After marriage, the wife continued to live in her parents' home.

Hubby either visited once in a while, or lived a nightmare of a life by moving in with the

wife's family.

I know.

At this early stage, inheritance went through the female line.

A man who sought a career in the Imperial court moved to the capital, supported financially

by his wife's family in return for representing their interests in court.

His wife stayed home.

She and her family took care of their children.

In later periods, as Japanese society became more patriarchal, men would demand to have

their own homes in the capital where they would live with their wives, separate from

the wife's family.

You could see this as them gaining independence, except they demanded the wife's family pay

for their new homes).

C'mon guys.

Marriage between pretty close family members was a thing in these days, like marriages

between aunt and nephew, stepsiblings, stepmother and stepson.

The reason may have been to maintain close relations within the family.

Polygamy was common.

Early on, they had both kinds, men with many wives, and women with many husbands.

Eventually, only men were allowed to have multiple spouses.

Some rich women could indulge in extramarital hanky panky, but it became rude to take on

additional husbands.

And now for what 90% of you are waiting for...

sex and hookers.

Prostitution was legal, and was common in major trading hubs.

Most sex workers did it to pay off debt, or their parents sold them to pay off their own

debts.

But there was a smaller number of high class prostitutes who chose the profession.

It does not seem like there was a stigma against prostitutes.

They could own and inherit property, and often lived a normal life or adopted a normal profession

after their sexual career.

These early Japanese prostitutes actually had more job opportunities after their careers

ended than another type of prostitute,

the US politician,

who, after their political

careers end, can only seem to find jobs in the lobbying field.

I couldn't help but wonder how these Japanese courtesans avoided STDs (or didn't avoid).

Bamboo condoms probably not too popular.

Couldn't find any info about it though.

Shame.

There did not seem to be a prohibition against sexual promiscuity like there was in Judeo-Christian

societies.

Youthful sexual experimentation and premarital sex was common, and expected.

They had a fun practice that I think you'll like, called "yobai," or "night crawling."

At night, a young unmarried man would sneak into a young unmarried woman's bedroom,

without alerting the rest of the household, and proposition her.

She would think long and hard about it.

If she declines, the creeper slinks off with his tail, or something else, between his legs.

If she accepts, they bump, and he leaves before morning.

Even if the other family members know, they usually turn a blind eye towards it.

This practice was considered a normal part of the dating process.

There wasn't really a formal marriage ceremony.

After a woman sleeps with the same guy a few times, he can stay over for breakfast, making

it official, and there you go, a happily married couple.

The practice varied between regions.

In some places, older people could do it, or even married women could participate.

It seems fun and all, but as you can imagine, problematic things may have happened.

How easily could women refuse?

And how often did men continue even after being rejected?

Farmers would house many seasonal workers for their fields, knowing that their daughters

may be night-crawled upon.

There were no prohibitions against masturbation or homosexuality.

Sex between men was common and did not make them seem less masculine.

In fact, it became the preferred sexual relationship between warriors well into medieval Japan.

It's pretty safe to say that sex between women was also accepted, since we don't

see any social prohibitions against it.

They also didn't particularly value virginity or saving themselves for marriage.

This period of equality of the sexes changed as Japan began adopting more Chinese culture,

particularly Confucianism.

Confucius was like the old neighbor who kept telling you to pull up your pants, put on

some damn clothes, and stop peeing on my dog.

Whenever people wanted to have a good time, Confucius had to go and ruin it for everyone.

Confucianism was more puritanical when it came to sex, and very patriarchal.

The patriarchal ideals did come to dominate Japan, but the sexual conservatism did not

seem to penetrate as much.

The only real concern about sexuality that they imposed was making sure there was a male

heir to continue the family line.

If the man produced an heir, his sexual activities were beside the point.

For more infomation >> Dating, Marriage, and Women (in Ancient Japan) | History of Japan 13 - Duration: 6:48.

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Momoland Jooe dating? The prove is here! [ENG sub] - Duration: 0:54.

Jooe: Oppa hello!

Members: Who is? Who? Who?

Jooe: Our oppa

Members: Minje oppa? Minje oppa hello! (idk who is he), ah no?

Jooe: Silence!

Jooe: Oppa did you eat?

Members: I have eaten. Me too.

Members: In this time it's obvious he have eaten

Jooe: I want to see you, when you'll come to see me?

Jooe: Can you see here? Do you know where it is?

Jooe: Hurry, my members wanna see you too

Members: I don't want, thanks.

Members: What are you doing!

Jooe: No! Our oppa is handsome!

Members: Oh really? Congrats

Members: We didn't ask you!

Jooe: Oppa, see you later, bye!

For more infomation >> Momoland Jooe dating? The prove is here! [ENG sub] - Duration: 0:54.

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More Responses to My Girlfriend's Vlog on Dating | Disability - Duration: 23:35.

Hey this is Seth Welling and today we're going to do a little something

different. Last weekend, my girlfriend Janelle Chronic mom voice did two videos

about me and one of them was more about me. The other one was my influence

on her and I think I'm going to do response to each video because well the

first one I actually the first one is dating with a disability and I actually

should do a response because she's talking about how to date a person

with a disability and questions to ask - and I would like to give some input on that

She's right by the way. The next statement is Having a disability does not make

you inferior I agree with this of course just a person of disability when I was

in college when I was in college there were special ed Department at my college

and there was this woman there who used the wheelchair now she wasn't born with

that disability she acquired one she was sheet-rocking her house when a big piece of sheet rock

fell on her and she used a wheelchair I don't know

if at home she was able to walk using countertops and walls but at work

where she needed to be safe so she was in the wheelchair you know accidents can

happen to people like I said before and just because big piece of sheetrock

falls on you does not make you an inferior person. It makes you a person with a

disability. It makes you disabled before everyone else is. Cause, you know we're all going to get disabilities, diabetes

strokes something like that so doesn't mean you inferior next question.

having a disability doesn't make you less capable no, it doesn't make you

less capable you may need help with some things that you didn't need help with

before but everyone needs help Superman doesn't exist so everyone

needs help now and again and if you're that shallow you need to be more empathetic

because someday you're going have a problem and if you're not empathetic there'll be no one

around to help you. I've always been empathetic. A it's part

of my personality. B I know I know I need help with some stuff well I have

spastic cerebral palsy and some days my left shoe won't go on because of my leg is

too spastic you know other days it goes on fine. I know I'm gonna need help on

those days though and just makes me want to be more empathetic to someone who always always

always needs help with their shoes or feeding or anything they need help with.

because I'm grateful that I have the capabilities that I have I'm thankful

because people want to help me so I also want to help people

just because you gotta pay it forward. last week or the before was paid for day and I like to think that I pay it forward everyday

just because you gotta pay it forward. anything they're being born every day it's not just one day of the year it's 365, 366

days a year. Pay it forward because it's not like something you check off on a list it just

helps society out It helps people out next thing she says in my experience

they're more capable of love meaning in my experience people with disabilities are

more capable of love. Some people are. Some people aren't. I think I'm glad that she has

better experiences with disabled people's or non-disabled people because

she's just in the other video she's gonna talk about how she has a lot of bad

relationships because she didn't really know parts of herself and you know she

went off after the wrong guys for her but they're not the wrong guys for everyone

but everybody's gonna type. I need a tomboy I need a woman who's strong and doesn't

depend on me to be a breadwinner or whatever that thing is pumping gas you

know carrying her over a threshold really it would be dangerous if I carried Janelle over

threshold.

maybe I should rent a wheelchair because ether I'm gonna have to use a

wheelchair to carry her over that threshold or if she's going to be the

wheelchair when I do and I drop her on her back It's capable of love that's... I'm glad

she has a positive experience but not before disabilities a nice some people

are angry when you can't blame them you can't blame them well they should try to

you're past that but it's a natural human emotion anger

is being angry when you can't do things that other people do. Imagine

if you can't drive Like, we live in New Hampshire and there's a bus system but

it only runs on weekdays and not weekend with everyone get together and you have to

ride around with mom when you're 50 years old you know and all your non-disabled

friends are out driving Corvettes for all you care, you know and you can't do that It's

a hard thing to overcome Fortunately, I can drive and I've

driven since I was 16 so I really feel for some people I know who can't drive because

it's just a big pain it's more than a pain I can't say when it's like when

it's on video to bleep myself but yeah it's not all

people with disabilities are noce and I'm glad she has experience some people who

have been nice to her because she should have someone she does she has me but

she needs someone to be nice to her but she's really a nice person

the next one is you've got to ask the questions and it's okay to ask questions and

I support this 150% because if you don't ask questions you won't know anything and

it's okay to ask questions. I will answer questions all day and

as long as they're not stupid questions like like why are you retarded

of you know be sensitive about it don't be an AAAA I almost said don't be a jerk

you know ask the kind of questions that you would want answers just don't be a jerk

about it and next question is you may have to be friends first I I fully

support this because she says she doesn't do hookups like hookups I hate hookups cause it's so skeezy.

College story: when I was in college and not grad school I was forced out of my

room by a fire drill because I lived in a freshman dorm

those people are just the most inconsiderate people ever because they

just think OH I'M at college the rules don't apply

I'm gonna pull fire alarms and do all kinds of stupid things when I'm just trying to

sleep so every time we have a fire pull and weird the whole floor would be

charged and I wasn't usually there but this time I was might have been on a weeknight.

so I went to his other dorm and this woman this girl: I was a sophomore she was a

freshman she really really really wanted to give me into bed and dude I didn't

know her and you know I could have gone with her but really because I have

cerebral palsy, I am a lot more protective of myself then other 20 year olds are or

45 year olds are because I don't wanna get in there and have her tie me up to a bed or

doing something that hurts me you know I wanna get an old person to see

what kind of person they are first because I have a responsibility to

myself not to get myself killed so I emphatically said No to her when

everyone was probably one have said YES because I don't know if she has and this is assuming

but I don't know if she has some kind of a sexually transmitted infection

you know you gotta think of that because I don't carry condoms with me around

all the time because I'm really not going this have sex unless I want to

have sex and guys you shouldn't you shouldn't borrow page from women because

a lot of them are really smart and are not going to have sex

unless they want to. you know it's all right for a guy to say no

it's all right for a woman to say no just you know you don't have to do something

that you're going to regret in the morning and that's my biggest fear Regret like that like what do I

do? did I get someone pregnant? Did I get an

STI it's just not a good feeling I'm sure to wake up to

IF your friends are asking so many questions about for both of you for me and for her and you

and then there are too many questions can you date? Can you kiss? Can you, you know

You're already know that if you're friends and it's just nice because you

get the whole what do you like stuff out of the way to and next one is

can you have sex which obviously I can but that should part of the questions.

and answer phase and she goes back the say people are appreciate questions. Yes I

appreciate questions as long you're not a jerk about it and so does everyone

else so does everyone else it's not any

disability thing it's a human thing and she says don't ever assume and I support

that don't assume I can't have sex over zoom I can't drive so don't assume that

my voice sounds funny therefore I must be retarded you know no one likes that

and you know you may think someone's retarded

you know I shouldn't even be saying the word but I have to and those people are more

intuitive with non-disabled people they know when people are making fun of them

when people who are non-disabled don't and just flies right over the head but

people with disability who you might think are really bad they know stuff

that you don't know don't count them out

don't assume that they're just stupid they're not they have a better

understanding of human relations and most of us they know wouldn't you try

that pull one over on them and many times they do it anyway because they want

to be liked but they know about it and you know the whole point of asking questions is you

need to go know what you're getting in to and this this shouldn't be disabilities only thing

this should be a thing for everyone like Janelle has had two

relationships that just didn't work out for her because she and she'll tell you this she

didn't ask enough questions she didn't know what she was getting into

and she was going after the wrong guy because she's a tomboy and these guys were

looking for a princess being a tomboy is fine I love tomboys my mom is a tomboy

both grandmothers were tomboys and I'm just used to that. it's fine

but unfortunately for her she didn't even know

that she was a tomboy and that tomboys were different and girly girls which

were the guys she pursued wanted girly girls and tomboy is the antithesis of a girly girl

well sometimes they can be girly if they want to but their first instinct is to

not be girly and go ride dirt bikes or something you know even you've just

need someone boyfriend/girlfriend who accepted me when I did bikes it's not a

big deal so know what you're getting into and she says

people with disabilities can do almost anything but with modification we're

talking about some people disabilities have problem with erections well a lot

of people have problems with erections and I had a battery change! we

were talking about erections and saying a lot of people have problems with

erections a lot of men course doesn't have to be a disabled thing them that's why they

make viagra and you know you just deal with it

the modifications don't have to be huge or little you know it depends on

the person of course but it give me just a normal modification like when I roll

or maybe you know positioning when doing the deed I don't know it's very personal

and you have to ask about that But it doesn't mean that I can't be done and it doesn't mean that

II can't be great you just have to little different maybe

maybe not so different This next one probably the most

important things she's said in this video people with disabilities are just

like you and me I can't argue with that. I've been reiterating everyone will get a disability some time in their life.

people with disabilities are you and me eventually Maybe I'll get diabetes too. You know?

it's going that way. Half the country is probably going to have it

I don't have any problem with that. Last Question: The last one up is

probably more important than the one before

people with disability don't like to be treated as charity cases. Like I said before a couple of questions back

you may think that this person with a profound disability is stupid but they

probably know more about people than you do. they probably know they're making

fun of them they probably know by the way your face looks. like you're giving them a slight

lot of non-disabled people can't distinguish between that and a

normal smile so they the people with disabilities well surprise incredibly astute

in certain things because it's a defense thing it was like one of mine my

greatest defense mechanisms knowing people and like my girlfriend's daughter

some of her siblings don't like one of her friends I knew what the issue was

and it's not anything bad it's that he has more money than other people do

and it's a class issue and I knew it was a class issue by the way in which these

kids were reacting because I see it all the time on

certain Facebook posts people start being irrational and whether certain way and

you know exactly what they reacting to it's not the person but it's a socio-economic

thing I can diagnose it over the Internet because I've never met this guy

before I've never met my girlfriend's daughter I will meet them in July I'm looking forward to that a lot.

we're gonna rectify that soon

I'm really good at human nature types of things and if I see a bad person no like

someone who is truthful and they're telling you something I'll give you an

example Mitt Romney when Mitt Romney was running

for president I didn't like him I wouldn't vote for him because doesn't smile with his eyes

eyes if he smiles like this I'm not smiling with my eyes then you're lying

most likely you are lying if we're not smiling with your eyes and that's all he

would do to smile with his mouth and not his eyes: liar when you smile with your

mouth and not your eyes all you're doing you're showing teeth and I look at as an

aggression and I can do this doesn't have to be a famous person but I can fact

check I've done this across a crowded room and just 100% accurate because I

know what I'm looking at I know something's wrong and it's not even conscience my

body just get shivers and I know something's wrong I know what I'm

looking at when I was 18 I didn't know what I was looking at but now

I'm pretty much spot on.people don't like to be treated as charity cases you know

old people, people with disabilities just three people as you would treat yourself

and you'll be fine unless you treating yourself badly that's all of her

questions or statements on dealing with disabilities thank you for watching if

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✅ Outnumbered 'parents' Hugh Dennis and Claire Skinner 'dating in real life' after separating from p - Duration: 3:14.

 They say that art imitates life – and when it comes to the cast of , it seems that old saying has come true.  The stars of the BBC comedy Hugh Dennis and Claire Skinner, who play stressed parents Pete and Sue Brockman, are now dating in real life

 Well, if this isn't the cutest news we've heard all week!  Hugh, 56, split from his wife of 19 years Kate Abbot-Anderson in 2016, while Claire, 53, separated from her husband Charles Palmer two years ago

 But according to a friend, it was 'quite a while' after their separations that Hugh and Claire began dating last March

 The source told The Sun: 'It's always a sad moment when a marriage breaks up. So to have found each other after the ending of both their ­relationships is rather lovely

'   – which sees Hugh and Claire act as the parents of Tyger Drew-Honey, Daniel Roche and Ramona Marquez – wrapped up in 2014 after five series, and returned in 2016 for a Christmas special

 And although Hugh and Claire were 'friendly', they didn't spend much time together before their respective splits from their partners

 The source continued: 'Between the end of the last series of in 2014 and the Christmas ­special in 2016, they didn't actually see each other for two years

 'They've always been really friendly but they were living their own lives until they were both single.'  The couple are reportedly open with their friends, family and colleagues about their romance

 Both stars have children from their previous marriages – Claire has sons William, 19, and Henry, 16, with ex Charles, while Hugh is dad to Freddie, 21, and Meg, 19

 Not Going Out star Hugh suggested that will return for more specials after the success of their 2016 Christmas special

 Speaking to Lorraine Kelly last September, he said: 'I doubt there will be another series but there will be more specials because that does seem to work

The special we did last year really worked.'  Metro.co.uk has contacted reps for Hugh and Claire for comment. Got a story?  If you've got a story, video or pictures get in touch with the Metro

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