when you live together before you're married there's like low key like less
of a chance that you'll get married that's true if you really living
together and you're already that is like if you're living at and you're having sex it's
like well why I get married. what's the point yeah
welcome back you two for another edition of HimHerHisLove
today's topic is since some people have asked us is why we don't live together
we in case you guys don't know we live separately yeah I have my own place she
has her own place but the reasons why we actually do that sure I mean so you
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live together well we also mostly you guys know that
we if you are subscribed then you know that we are waiting till marriage to
have sex oh we've never had sex with each other letters in any way shape or
form but like not like kinda had sex or like no no part of him has been in any
part of me like there's no sex whatsoever at all and any way shape or
form it's being clear because y'all like to be like oh what about no not that
either and we also don't live together mostly
we don't know that we actually do not like we're not together as much as we
seem like we are on Instagram there's that's just not we don't look together
um why don't we look together it well as she mentions we don't have sex so living
together creates a big opportunity for sex especially if you're practicing not
having sex until marriage when you're living with somebody they're sleeping
next to you every single night it's there so you get tempted to have sex
that didn't take creates that temptation increase that opportunity to want to
have sex before marriage which is no no so that's a ton make big reason on why
we don't live together um also we don't live together cuz she wants to see how I
take care of ya like for me personally like even before like meeting the
amazing judge I it was like one of my things on my list of like the man has to
have his own place like I want to see how you live on your own like one can
you financially maintain your own house like can you like financially take care
of yourself before you try to add me to your equation of your life and how does
your house look like did you decorate or you sleep this is like pizza boxes
everywhere you sleep it on like an air mattress are like the actually furniture
like is it clean like I get to see how you live and how you maintain your own
world before integrating myself for being yeah bring someone else in to your
home hmm your whole life yeah cuz you are at that point mixing yeah so that's
bad habits that's good habits that's routines in the morning yeah all that's
being integrated so you want to see that person's habits before you hello yeah
because there happens may not work was your work yeah listen and I felt like
when you live together before you're married there's like looking like less
of a chance that you'll get married that's true there you're already kind of
like if you're living at Annie I'm SEC just like well why I gave me what's the
point yeah we're already kind of doing that or you like slide into marriage
like yeah you just end up you're like oh we're already married and we already you
know share a grocery list I don't know yeah you're really doing life together
and you're having sex like why not let's just just go and get married so it takes
like the commitment and the like making a conscious choice to like I'm going to
serve you for the rest of my life like I am going to be a part of it like in
partnership a team with you for forever like seriously yeah it's like oh very
serious things when you just kind of go into it nonchalantly because you've
already been doing all the many things anyway so I was like oh this is going to
get married then you know what you know I don't
respect or the constitutive part of marriage and I feel like that makes your
marriage like maybe not not not last but like not like you didn't start off on a
good foot you know you want to start off on a very like committed like I'm making
a choice to give up my past life and start afresh with you like to start new
and like that will be the case because you don't live together or share a bank
account or like share your lives already like we don't we don't have a sure thing
we don't share anything open time
whenever we get yeah sure sure that we do have lives separate
outside of each other on each other but yeah kind of just yeah like make it yeah
when you're ready to give them a wall I guess when they're ready to ask that how
it goes yeah because you want to do you want to enjoy that courting yeah also
when you just start living together there is no it takes the whole dating
aspect out of it so there's no him picking you up for dates
there is no take you're taking the road that's where you taking the romance so
you want to have that romance in your life
see how he does on dates and takes you out and kind of wines and dines you on
his budget so check out how to date on a budget you can say winding down on your
budget you come align it now on the budget oh yeah you don't want to do you
don't want to lose that that courting aspect yes in the initial phase of your
relationship before you get into engagements before you get into being
married together you want to enjoy that dating time to them yeah please what
we're doing kind of me and a lot of the reason why we even have this whole
hammer is love is because this like it's such a such a small fragile moment in
like the rest of your life like you spend all these years before you meet
the one being single and figuring your own self out and growing your
relationship with God I'm just kind of like being in your own world with your
family and your friends to this small moment of time where like you're getting
to know each other but you're not like completely bound together in in marriage
so it's like small like this is a small little window even if it's like three
years or six years that's six years out of hallelujah Pamela be alive like 60 70
80 like six years out of 80 years is like a small window of time so like it's
precious its precious this moment of like kind of slowly integrating and like
just watching and observing but still being a part is very very small so it's
a precious moment yeah treat it as such don't it's in a very important time yeah
don't rush it baby each other yeah don't don't rush like take the time you
haven't if you guys get if you do if you guys do to marry do you have it the rest
of your lives like yes forever.com yes to be together all the time yeah I'm
sure I know each other at some point and have sex like all of that forever yeah
you'll live together you'll never not live together
you're weird works out I don't know but like you know what I'm saying
you that's gonna that's gonna come so be patient and take your time in this
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