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Today we discuss the topic of relationships of local Ukrainian men with their children

when they get divorced with wife, and also legal issues of traveling and relocating of

the kid.

As soon as many our clients are worried about this aspect of developing relationships with

a Ukrainian bride, it is important to give you a full idea on how it happens here.

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, A father is one of the most important figures in life and fate for a child.

Despite the fact that fathers spend less time at home than mothers, less often they talk

"per capita" with children, they have a great influence on the psychological and

moral development of a son or daughter.

In raising a child, they cannot be replaced by anyone or anything.

Why Ukrainian fathers do not communicate with their children after divorce in so many cases?Why

does it happen that children become unnecessary for fathers after divorce with Ukraine ladies

and they are raised by mothers without fathers' participation?

Why do fathers stop communicating with children after the family breaks up?

Psychologists believe that the reasons for such an attitude of men may lie in the character

of a person, in his value orientation, and also in the culture to which he belongs:1.

Many modern men do not believe in the future and refuse to appreciate the past.

The instability of modern life is determined by the fact that men no longer perceive themselves

as the main link of the clan chain, the successors of the gens.

They live for one day and do not think about the future and about other people, including

children.

All care for children (even in full families) is completely shifted onto the shoulders of

women.

2.

Modern men have completely changed their priorities and social guidelines.

Their public rating is no longer determined by the number of heirs or the power of the

family clan.

Much greater importance now has material wealth.

For this reason, children have ceased to be important for men, because they do not see

the point in "straining" because they will not bring them success.

3.

Currently, many men have lost moral and moral guidelines, believing that no one in life

can be relied upon.

It is quite natural that with such an installation children, as long-term projects requiring

reliable partners, are not considered by men as something that should be paid attention

to.

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Thus, the wrong attitude of the fathers to their children has strong social and cultural

reasons that are not so easy to eliminate.

However, if you do not look deep into the problem, the answer to the question of why

fathers do not communicate with children after divorce can be found on the surface.

• Firstly, this is how a man's unwillingness to see his ex-wife (which is inevitable),

which may have a new husband already.

Here a lot of feelings are mixed up: both insult, and wounded male ego, and anger.•

Secondly, the father can transfer his hate and anger of the former spouse to the child.

This reason is especially evident in the situation when a son or daughter looks like their mother

or relatives from mother's side.•

Thirdly, a man can start a new family, requiring all his attention, and he simply won't have

time, strength or finances for children from the previous marriage.

In addition, the new spouse may resist the father's communication with the child from

the ex-wife.•

Fourth, men, in general, treat children differently than women.

Very deeply men might have a fear or suspicion that the child isn't his (after all, only

the mother can be 100% sure that the child was born from her).•

Fifth, as you know, papa's love and mom's love are two completely different substances.

Mom loves her child simply for what he is, whatever appearance, character, school performance,

etc. he has.At the same time, it is important for the father that the offspring is what

his father wants him to be, and the child will meet his expectations and requirements

(for example, be successful, healthy, beautiful, athletic, have common interests with his father).If

this does not happen, or if the child is still too small to win the love of his father, the

man ceases to see the point in continuing to communicate with that person, which is

simply derived from him biologically, but does not cause any parental feelings and pride.

«I want a Ukrainian wife» or how to get father's permission for bringing a child

abroad?

Unfortunately, nowadays, many fathers, despite the fact that they do not help in raising

a child, don't pay alimony, they don't give permission to their former wives to export

the child abroad, regardless of whether it is just a holiday trip or for permanent residence.What

are the travel rules for children under the age of 16?Citizens under the age of 16 leave

Ukraine, with the permission of both parents and accompanied by them or by persons authorized

by parents who, at the time of leaving Ukraine, have reached 18 years old.Citizens under the

age of 16, accompanied by persons authorized by both parents, shall depart from Ukraine

by the notarized permission of both parents, indicating the country of destination and

the corresponding time interval in that state.How to get permission to leave the child abroad?The

best option is to voluntarily obtain such permission.

The parents' permission to leave Ukraine for a child, who is not under the age of 16,

is issued in the form of a statement in which the authenticity of the signature of the parent

is notarized.To perform this notarial act, you can contact the notary public office or

a private notary.If one of the parents basically does not want to give permission.

In the absence of the permission of one of the parents, the child's leaving Ukraine

may be allowed on the basis of a court decision.The statement of claim for permission to leave

without the agreement and accompaniment of one of the parents is filed in civil proceedings

in a local court at a registered place of residence or stay of the defendant.In addition,

if the father does not pay alimony for a long time and does not help in raising the child,

it is possible to deprive him of his parental rights; however, this is a rather long procedure.

If you have chosen a Ukrainian woman who already has a child and your heart tells you: "I

want a Ukrainian wife", you need to ask at an earlier stage of your acquaintance what

kind of relationship she has with her ex-husband, whether he will prevent her and her child

from going abroad.

And even if such a problem exists, it will not be able to stop you from the opportunity

to build a happy and harmonious family with the one you love.

I will be grateful for your comments, questions and your own stories!

Write them below the video and we will discuss it, if necessary!

Have a nice day and may everything happens smoothly and easy in your relationships with

the Ukrainian lady!

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Dating Apps a Blessing or Curse? - Duration: 4:46.

Dating apps are they a blessing or a curse. Well it depends who you ask really

doesn't it. So when I ask men they tell me

yep it's absolutely brilliant it's fast it's easy you have access to lots of

women swipe swipe swipe I can just select it's

great. I'm never sort of a date. When I ask women what they think about dating

apps more and more frequently now I'm hearing things like they're dehumanizing

men do things like ghosting in bread crumbing there is an expectation that

intimacy happens extremely quickly. So I wanted to talk about dating apps today

to be able to help a few women understand what they can do to

actually manage what seems to be a really horrible process for them now. My

name is Debbi Carberry and I am a relationship coach. Ladies instead of

being disempowered by these apps it's probably time to step up and start

expecting more from our men. So like I said these apps can be really

dehumanizing. People are making decisions about whether they even want

to get to know you based on an image and a couple of words. Like I said before

ghosting and bread crumbing were words I'd never even heard of only a couple of

years ago. Now are really quite commonplace where people just do not

have the integrity and decency to contact you and say hey I'd rather not

go on another date - hey it's not for me. Instead they just peter out their

conversation or they just completely ignore you and that's not the kind of

guy I want to date it to be honest with you. Ladies I think you have more power

in this situation than you give yourself credit for. We do not have to play the

games that are going on in online dating. We don't have to you can slow things

down in fact you should slow things down quite dramatically. Date two or three guys

at once and just date them. Go on dates lightweight like coffee or lunch have a chat get

to know them. Then give yourself some time to actually see if you even like

them. You know are they decent humans do they treat you like a lady do they

respect you and do they behave with decency do they do what they say they're

going to do when they said they're gonna do it. Try

and keep your life balance ladies don't go all in with a man you've met on

a dating site because you don't know what sort of person he is

give yourself an opportunity to work it out and please please please please

don't go having sex after the first four hours there are some people - men and

women who go to dating apps and literally it is just like going to a

smorgasbord for dinner. I'll have a little bit of this and a little bit of

that a little bit of that and unless that's what you're after you know state

in your profile please do not contact me if all you're wanting is something quick

and easy. Let them know that if they want to get to know you if they want to find

out who you are if they want to actually have a relationship with somebody that

then you're willing to have a period of time of getting to know them. I use a six

date rule. Leave it six days before you even decide if you like the person

and that means not Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday I'm

talking like six dates over a decent period of time and keep balance in your

life go and see your girlfriend still go out and do things and you know what you

could try the old-fashioned way that I learned which is go meet people doing

stuff you know go join clubs go to meetups. Meetups are global and there are

so many of them around an activity where you get to meet people and know

them and see if you even like them before you go on a date. So ladies let's

go back to a time in history when you know there was a bit more of a chase

because I'm gonna tell you something from the men that I work with they want

to chase and when we don't let that happen when this it all well can we have

something quick and easy and we go okay fine the chase is done for them and so

the interest wains quickly it's a matter of standing up and saying you know what

if you want to get to know me if you would like to be closer to me then guess

what buddy you're gonna have to work a bit harder for it so my tips about

dating apps they do have a place of course they do but be discerning. Make

sure your profiles really clear about what you don't want and you set the tone

of what you are willing to accept and if you are getting guys

were only wanting one thing there's something wrong with the way you're

approaching you're dating you let them know from the get-go and I promise

you you'll get a better quality gentleman contacting you - okay that's it

for me today let's see if there's any controversy comes from that lot take it

easy everybody bye