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Have you been wondering why are my parents so overprotective? I know parents.

I've worked with lots of parents. I can tell you why. Parents. They're kind of

weird. But I know parent psychology. I've worked with a lot of parents. I had my

own parents. I am a parent. And I know how they think. To understand why they are so

overprotective, I think first of all, let's take a look at the perspective

that parents are coming from. To do that, I want you to come with me to a mountain

that I climbed a few years ago. In fact, I will draw a picture of it for you right

here. Here you go. This is mountain Timpanogos. You get out an atlas or

something. And look it up. It's in Utah. It's near my office. And I like to go to

the summit of this mountain as often as I can. It's awesome. I had an opportunity

to take my kids up the mountain when they got old enough that they could go

up with me. It's kind of a strenuous hike. So they had to be ready for it.

Picture this. As we're going up this mountain together, I'll just draw us here

on the mountain, here we are, okay? 2 lovely people heading up the mountain.

You get up a certain height and the view starts to open up, right? You get above

the trees a little bit and you can see a long ways. So this view is awesome. You

get a little bit higher in what happens? Oh,

up here, the view is even better. Can you see that? It was kind of funny because

one of my sons when he was just I think 11. We got up about this far on the

mountain and the view was amazing. Honestly we could see for miles. And I

turned to my young son and I said, "Do you think the view could get any better than

this?" And he's like, "I don't think so. This is

pretty awesome." You know, he's right. It is awesome.

But what do I know? See, I've been to the summit many times before. And what's the

difference when we get up here at the top? See up here at the top, we have the

best view of all. And in fact, we can see both directions now. That's a pretty darn

good view. The view got even better. That's not to say that this view down

here was bad. No. It was awesome too. But the view expands as you get farther up

the mountain. Here's how this ties in to your parents. Who's been hiking longer? In

life I mean? The mountain of life? You or your parents? Yeah, your parents. They're

old, right? They've been hiking longer, notice. I'm

not saying that they are smarter or they're more righteous. I don't know if

they are. But I do know that they've been hiking longer. Why are my parents so

overprotective? Check it out. If your parents are up here. Alright, maybe

they're not even on the top. Maybe they're somewhere near the top or

whatever, okay? Some parents are already over the hill. Don't tell him I said that.

But your parents are up here somewhere? Where are you? Well, you're a little

farther down the mountain. And your view is awesome. Face it. You know more, you've

experienced more, you understand the world better than you ever have.

Right? That's absolutely true. And your parents have been hiking longer. So

sometimes your parents are up here on the top of the mountain and they're like,

"Oh, no! Look, my kid is running off of that cliff. They're about to get into all

kinds of danger down there." So they freaked out just a little bit.

And they start hollering down to, "Hey, don't go that way." I mean while you're down

here and you're like, "I'm hiking here. I'm fine. I know what I'm doing. I can see

just fine." And you can. "I can see just fine."

Meanwhile they're like, "No! Don't do it." And so, they're freaking out. And when

parents freak out. It's usually because they're worried. Why would they be

worried? Because they think whether they're right or not.

They think that you are in danger. You're in trouble somehow. And so they're like,

"Oh, no! Don't do it." Right? But they can't actually control it. They can't. They want

to. They want to go down and guide your steps, right? All the way up the mountain.

But they can't. Because who's driving your feet? You. Well, they know this and so

sometimes when parents are worried or upset, they get a little hyper

controlling on you. So what can we do about this? Let's have a little chat for

a minute about how parents think? Can we do that? Parent psychology is something

that you're going to want to understand. And then you'll know what to do about

your parents being so overprotective. Here's how parents think. Parents are

really not that hard to figure out. They're fairly simple in their

psychology. When you understand that they're looking at everything that's

happening in terms of maturity and control. Here's what I mean. Let's put a

graph up here that plots control. That's over here on this side against maturity.

That's down here. Control means control over your own life. And it can go from

zero to a hundred percent. You can have all the control or none of the

controller somewhere in between. Now, maturity has to do with how grown up

you are. One way to think about this is age. So

when you're first born for example. At birth, how much control do you have over

your own life? Yeah, hardly any. You can make a big noise

in a big stink, that's about it. So, we'll put a dot way down here. Now, how about as

an adult? How much control do you have at the other end of the maturity spectrum?

Yeah, whole lot more huh? Yeah, maybe there's some fine print and stuff. But

for most purposes and intense, it's way up here. Between birth and maturity,

between birth and adulthood, we gradually increase in our control over our life

until we're over here and we have most of the control. Now, here's the thing with

parents. They know that they have to share control with you. As you get older,

as you get more mature, you get to have more and more control over your life.

Whether they like it or not. Usually they don't like it. It makes them nervous.

That's why they get overprotective. Parents understand that you've got to be

more mature in order to have the control. So, here's something that's going to help.

Let's take a Jat of the equation for a minute and we'll look at this in terms

of stage. Stage, not age. You're with me? I'm going to divide this into 3

stages of maturity. This is how parents typically think. So, as I remove age from

the equation. keep thinking stage, not age. Because that's what your parents are

thinking. And as you understand that, it's going to put you in a much better

position to deal with your parents. Stage 1 is the least mature. Stage 2 is

right in the middle. Stage 3 is over here on the far right side. At Stage 1,

you don't get to have much control over your life.

Somebody else is going to take most of the control.

Your parents. Right. At stage 2, you get to have more control.

See how that's growing? At stage 3, you get to have the most control possible

over your own life. Stage 1, looks like this. It's selfish

and self-centred. It's all about me, me, me. At stage 1, we're manipulating and

demanding. I want what I want and I want it now. Give me what I want.

Stage 1, is all about Tantrums. Okay, you get where I'm coming from? Now, this is

typical of little bitty kids. 2-year-olds can pitch a fit. But it's

not about age. It's about stage. And what if you are pitching fits? What if you are

throwing tantrums? What if you are being demanding and disrespectful? That means

your parents are going to think that you're not very mature. And they are

going to try to take a whole bunch of control in your life.

Stage 2. let's go there for a moment. At stage 2, we stop fighting and start

cooperating. Cooperation is the hallmark of stage 2. At stage 2, you don't want

any trouble. You want to keep the peace. So, you're going to work with people. And

you'll negotiate. And you come to a win-win kind of a solution.

You know? You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours. Let's work together. That's

stage 2. If you get to stage 2, you get to have more control. Stage 3? Oh,

this is where it gets really fun. This is where you are truly responsible. At stage

3, you have morals and values and ethics that drive your behavior. At stage 3,

you're willing to engage in service. And you practice empathy for other people. Do

you see how mature this is? Basically it's stage 3, you're going toV do the

right things for the right reasons. And that's hard. Only mature people even try

it. That's what gives you the most control over your life. If your parents

see you on stage 3, they are going to back way off and allow you to have most

of the control over your own life. So, here's the kicker. And remember we're

talking about parent psychology. How parents think. How mature you are matters.

Because that determines how much control you get to have in your own life. But

here's the kicker. How mature parents think you are matters. Because

that's going to determine how protective or controlling they think they need to

be based on your level of maturity. So, even if you're mature enough to have

control over your own life, if your parents think that you're on stage 1,

that you're being selfish and manipulative and demanding, you follow

this? They are going to get kind of control freakish on you. And they're going to

become overprotective. So what can you do about this when your parents are

overprotective? Stage 3, be more mature. Figuring out

what it's going to take for you to take full responsibility.

Think about your chores. Think about your homework. Think about all of those things

that your parents keep nagging you to do. If they don't have to nag you and you're

still doing it, they're going to think that you're more mature. I think they're going to

be backing off and giving you a whole lot more control. So did you get some

ideas there? Parents are not that hard to figure out. See how this works for you.

And then did you share it with somebody else that you think could really use it?

For more infomation >> Why Are My Parents So Overprotective? - Duration: 13:19.

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WHY Do You Swell Up After A Juice Fast😱😱😱 - Duration: 4:13.

hey guys back with another video today we're talking about juicing but what's

new I'm always talking about juicing so I've got a comment from somebody and

they said to me and I feel like I answered this comment before if I did so

what I'm gonna you know answer it again and it's probably going to be a it's

gonna be the same answer answer the different way so this person asks me why

do you swell after a juice fast the answer is very simple why you swell up

after a juice fast for number one when you're on a juice fast please take into

consideration that juicing do not sleep on juicing just because it might taste

good because of the mixtures of fruits and vegetables and of course people like

to have it taste good to the palate so you might add more fruits and vegetables

juicing is an astringent so it's tricks all the bad things

including sodium and minerals out of the blood the liver of the kidneys and you

have to replace these things with potassium a little bit of sodium salts

not bad but too much of it's not good and you have to balance the body out

with that so once you get off the juice cleanse and you go immediately into salt

foods you don't know what hitted sodium's

are in that food so what tends to happen is you start to bloat up because your

body has sodium in it from the fruits and vegetables but not at the intensity

that it does in process or foods that you may come home when you're seasoning

up your own food with table salt or maybe even people and saw a sea salt

it's not that much salt you know sodium you know

volume in your body once you do a juice cleanse a lot of that sodium is stripped

out your body and once you start adding it back into your diet or your regiment

the body's gonna simply just swell back up one way to combat that is to make

sure when you start eating solid foods that you drink between 32 to 64 and even

maybe 96 ounces of water each day so that you stay on top of the flushing of

excess sodium so that you don't continue to swell because what happens is after

juice cleanse if you continue to eat after your juice cleanses over you're

going to if you're not drinking adequate amounts of water you're going to add on

two pounds one day then when you eat again you're gonna add on another two

pounds it's gonna go up and up and up and up water retention doesn't stop it

can go as much as the body will allow to hold that water so you have to get it

under control by drinking more water it makes no sense but once the body knows

that it is getting water into the system and it is also flushing out the sodium

from the water that you are drinking it will no longer hold on to the water

attention and it will release itself from the body and then eventually your

weight will go back to the size that you should be after the water retention is

completely drained from your system so with all that being said I hope I

answered your question please subscribe to the channel like and share this video

and make it a favorite and I'll see you guys in the next video bye for now

For more infomation >> WHY Do You Swell Up After A Juice Fast😱😱😱 - Duration: 4:13.

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Why Do Some Hindus Hate Themselves??(HINDI) - Duration: 12:04.

today, we will talk about the self hatred of some Hindus

My name is Sham Sharma, Welcome to The Sham Sharma Show

Welcome to Sham Sharma Show, thank you for joining me today

we have seen since independence

that some Hindus have a strange hatred towards their culture

they call themselves Hindu, but still

they have a strange hatred towards their culture. We see this mainly in

English Educated Hindus, who are very far removed from their culture, they have convinced themselves of the Colonial/Leftists theory that Hinduism is benign and anything other than that is evil.

I saw an article in The Wire

that shows these kind of Hindus well

this article was written by AbhijitSengupta

these hindus

who call themselves Hindu but that their culture

They have a Marxist interpretation of Hinduism, which believes that Hinduism in benign, it will never retaliate.

It will offer the other cheek always. like Gandhiji

this is what they think Hinduism is

your idea of Hinduism is a strange one

this has no relation to hindu Dharma

They have a Marxist interpretation of Hinduism

The Muslims can fight for their right, so can the Christians in the NE, but never the Hindus.

this a nice bit of hypocrisy

Our culture has always said that fighting for righteousness is important

all the seculars always say,

Ahimsa Parmo Dharmah

this phrase is incomplete

Then Sri Krishna Said in the Gita

paritranaya sadhunam vinasaya ca duskrtam dharma-samsthapanarthaya sambhavami yuge yuge

In order to save the pious and eliminate the mischief-makers, as well as to restore the principles of religion, I extend myself to the millennium after the millennium

evil doers are not removed by kisses

dharmyāddhi yuddhāch chhreyo 'nyat kṣhatriyasya na vidyate

Believing your duty as a warrior, you should not think of anything else. Actually, for a warrior, there is no better duty than to fight for righteousness

one of india's greatest poets wrote:

in our nation, there is a long history of fighting for our dharma

This is the second tactic of self-hating Hindus. We are worthless, there is nothing great about us!

India had the greatest kings, the greatest literature that the world looks to this day

yoga, samkya, meditation, ayurveda

there are so many things that the world is taking inspiration from us

Great traditions, great sciences, great warriors. The only culture to survive the Abrahamic onslaught.

There are so many things that are great.

there are things that we can imporve upon, and we are still improving. But we can and we will.

It is wrong to question their allegiance. But in some cases, their allegiances lie to the ummah and their scriptures and their holy places outside India than their countrymen, and it is ok to have that discussion.

To ask questions and to have discussions does not make you a bigot.

wow

amazing logic

there is a difference between settling in an uninhabited land, rather than approach a well-settled culture, murder the people that live there, destroy their culture and take their land and their resources by force.

have you lost your mind?

Thank you, and I agree. So let's talk to the cultures who have rigidness coded in their books. They are commanded by their scriptures to be exclusivist and rigid in their beliefs. Anyone outside those beliefs must be destroyed.

we have been fighting that ideology for such a long time

that has made us a little rigid as well

we must look at the reasons why and explore and discuss them as well

but we must look at the reasons as well

No one is obligated to celebrate surgical strikes. If you love india, if you love its people and its soldiers, and if you see them murdered by Islamic terrorists, then it should make you happy if you see their deaths avenged.

the happiness is that if someone harms indians, then India is ready to retaliate

Israel avenged the deaths of its athletes in 1972 Olympics. They did it to deter future attacks.

india also did the surgical strike to deter future attacks

rather than just abusing Hindus

we can also take a serious look at the exclusivist ideologies of India

instead of looking at it, the media only likes to abuse hindus

this is why many hindus are fed up of mainstream media

i hope you see how Hindus are hating their own culture

i want to ask you,

why do you think hindus hate their culture, and how do we solve this?

let me know your comments in the comments section!

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