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- In this video, I'm gonna share with you
the three qualities that make somebody naturally attractive.
(powerful music)
Now, I did mention in the last video
that in today's video I was gonna tell you
about how you can obtain a secret hidden video from me.
Make sure you stay tuned,
because I am gonna be giving you access to that
at the end of this video, so do not miss it.
But in this video, first of all,
we are gonna talk about the three things
that make somebody naturally attractive and why.
So I believe that there are three qualities
that if you have all three of these things,
then people will naturally be drawn to you.
They will naturally wanna be more attracted to you.
And this is a quality that most people forget
when it comes to their dating life.
They'll learn lines or learn tricks
or learn good places to take somebody on a date,
which by the way I'm gonna talk about
in my next video on the channel,
so make sure you watch out for that one too.
But there is more to dating than that,
and a big part of dating is improving who you are,
becoming more attractive.
And I believe there are three qualities
that make somebody naturally more attractive.
These are abundance, confidence,
and the ability to escalate.
You can remember these as ACE, A-C-E,
abundance, confidence, and escalate.
And each one of these qualities
is a natural trigger for attraction.
The first of these, abundance, is all about making sure
that you have opportunities, you're not just limited
by only meeting people in your workplace,
that you actually have a lot of people around you,
or what I'd like to think of as a healthy social life
with multiple opportunities to date.
At any one time, I've got five, six different people
who I'm attracted to who are attracted to me.
And I'm not necessarily dating them, they're just friends.
But by staying in touch with them and making sure
that I'm constantly surrounded by people
who may or may not be attracted to me,
it improves my natural attractiveness to others.
Other people around me can see
that there are people that want me,
and it makes them realize that I am a candidate,
I am somebody that they could date,
and it boosts my attractiveness.
In fact, many psychology studies have shown preselection
or the concept of abundance
can improve your attractiveness by 20%.
That means if you typically,
I don't believe in rating people in numbers,
but if you rated yourself a six out of 10,
you're an eight out of 10 if you have abundance.
So it's a huge quality to make sure you develop.
The next is confidence.
Confidence I used to hate, right.
I used to be like, oh, confidence,
how do you get confidence?
You just be more confident?
But that's not really what it's about.
Confidence can be developed.
The real key to developing confidence is with experience.
That's what makes actual confidence.
The key is you've gotta make sure you get the right kind
of experience that makes you attractive
versus the experiences in the wrong things
that no one cares about or a false bravado,
a fake experience where you're showing off to everyone,
and that's not attractive either.
But if you learn how to generate the right kind
of experience, then that makes you confident
in all the settings where you have experience,
and that makes you more attractive.
So it's a very easy way to build real confidence
as opposed to the fake bravado that doesn't attract anybody.
And lastly is you have to know how to escalate.
If you don't know how to get things
a little bit more intimate
and a little bit more X rated and naughty,
then your situations are gonna end up stuck
in the friend zone all the time.
Someone is just gonna view you as a friend,
and they're not gonna find you
as a potential romantic partner.
And it doesn't matter if you're a guy, girl,
or whatever you identify as.
You need to know how to get somebody aroused
so that they know that you're interested in them
so that they don't feel awkward and they're like,
well, I like this person, but I don't know if they like me.
So it's really important that you know how to escalate
in a way that doesn't weird somebody out,
in a way that makes sure that it's consensual,
but also it lets them know that you are interested.
And if you have these three qualities,
then it's very easy for you to be naturally more attractive.
But what if you don't have all three?
What if you're somebody that only has two
of each of the qualities?
In fact, more commonly than not,
you'll see people do only have two of these qualities,
and it's the reason they struggle at dating.
For example, if I have abundance and confidence,
I've got a lot of friends who are naturally attracted to me
and I'm a confident person,
but I don't know how to escalate,
what happens then is I am that really cool friend
that's constantly single.
And it's simply because I don't know
how to let others know that I'm interested in them.
On the other hand, if I have abundance
and the ability to escalate but no confidence,
then I've got a lot of friends
who may or may not be attracted to me,
I know how to set up a relationship,
but I'm never getting the person that I want.
I'm never getting the quality that I want
because I'm afraid of going after the one that I truly want.
And lastly, if I've got confidence
and the ability to escalate, they're the kind of people
that don't really have lots of friends.
They're going out into bars, meeting somebody,
having one-night stands,
ending up in relationships with people based on luck
that just happen to be single,
and they're going out constantly trying
to make something happen,
and yet they don't really have that healthy social life.
And what happens is every time they meet somebody,
they try and have a relationship with them,
and so they never really develop a friend group.
And then when they get single,
they're left alone again and don't know what to do.
And you probably identify
with at least one of those three things,
especially if you're watching this video.
Or I suppose there's a chance
that you don't have any of them,
and then your situation's even worse than that.
But if you have all three,
then it is naturally easy for you to meet people,
or at least a lot easier than it is for you today.
Now, if you wanna learn more about these three things
and if you'd like to see a hidden video that I've created
about the best way to go for a very first kiss,
then go over to Facebook, and I have a Facebook group
called Confidential Dating Advice for Professionals.
It's specifically designed for people who have a career
or who own their own business and are making enough money
that they feel stable and secure
in their financial situation,
but they're looking to boost their dating life
because they know that if they get this dating life handled
that it's gonna be the catalyst that can push them on
to reach all of the results
that you really wanna be getting to in life
and reaching that full potential.
And this group is dedicated to people
that are already making a decent amount of money
but want to go to that next level.
And inside that video,
we talk a lot about various techniques,
including how to naturally develop these three qualities,
abundance, confidence, and the ability to escalate.
And I've got this hidden video
that I'm gonna be putting up there
about how to go for a first kiss.
In fact, there is even a masterclass series
on how to develop more physical intimacy with somebody.
So in short, there's a ton of great information in there,
and it's completely for free.
The only thing you have to do to qualify is to make sure
that you are a business professional
and you've got everything else in your dating life handled,
or as I spoke about in my earlier video,
essentially you've got that Maslow's hierarchy
of needs level two settled
and you're looking to build up the next level.
So if this sounds like you,
if you think that you're a right fit for this,
then I'd love to invite you
to come and join me in the group.
I'm gonna put a link in the description
that you can find and click on, but you can also find it
by just going onto Facebook and looking
for Confidential Dating Advice for Professionals.
And in the very next video on this channel,
we're gonna be talking about
where to take somebody on a first date.
So if you wanna have a great first date,
make sure you stay tuned and don't miss out
on the very next video coming soon.
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