Damn, I look good.
No filter needed.
All right.
Shhh.
I used a filter, but don't tell anyone.
Okay?
Now, let me ask you.
Is this guy just confident?
Is he just another annoying millennial who posts way too much on social media?
Or is he just a total narcissist?
Let me explain this video.
Keep watching.
Hey there you sexy single ladies.
Adam LoDolce, here, from sexyconfidence.com, where I help the 21st century woman create
a love life that she absolutely freaking love.
Since I help women just like you, I needed to make a video about narcissists, because
men are far more likely to be narcissists than you women.
This is backed by a ton of data.
A huge analysis was just done looking back at over 350 different studies that have really
looked at over 400,000 people who participated.
They found that, statistically, men are much more likely to be narcissists than women.
Now, there are many different evolutionary theories or just psychological theories that
you can go into as to why this is the case.
Rather than waste our time on that, why don't we just make sure that you just stay the f-
away from one of these guys.
Here's the problem.
You're probably attracted to confident men with high self-esteem.
Sadly, when you first meet someone, it's easy to think a guy has high self-esteem, when
he's actually a narcissist.
Let me start by clarifying the key differences, so you don't fall into this trap.
Now, narcissists feel superior to others, but don't necessarily like themselves.
In fact, narcissists feelings about themselves tend to be entirely based on the opinions
of others, hence, the selfies.
Whereas, people with high self-esteem tend not to feel necessarily superior to other
and generally accept themselves regardless of what other people think of them.
Make sense?
Just because he has, of course, one of these signs doesn't mean he's a narcissist.
If you're seeing three, four, or certainly five, then it's definitely very possible.
Number five.
He loves to talk about himself.
If every conversation revolves around him, I, me, my, rather than you, then there is
definitely a problem.
It'll almost feel like he's bragging about the things that he's done just for your validation.
Then, when you won't give him that validation, he'll try even harder.
Number four.
Unless you agree with him, he really doesn't want to hear your opinion.
He doesn't want to hear your feelings, because he doesn't give a shit about your feelings.
He only cares about you caring about his feelings.
He'll dismiss you and maybe even make you feel stupid at times, especially if you embarrass
him.
Number three is he expects you to cater completely to his needs without him needing to reciprocate
at all.
The dude is entitled to you doing his laundry, because he seems to think that his dirty laundry
smells like fresh baked cookies from the oven, even though he knows deep down inside, it
still smells like shit, just like the rest of us.
He's certainly never going to do your laundry for you.
Number two.
He can be very, very, charming when he wants something from you.
Sadly, once he does get whatever it is that he wants, he'll drop you like a bad habit.
Which doesn't make sense, because you, my sexy lady, are a damn sexy good habit that
should be held, cuddled, and loved, certainly not dropped.
If he does drop you, then consider it a blessing.
Finally, number one is that narcissists feed off spreading negative emotions to others
and tend to be emotionally abusive.
This is because they have such a fragile ego that they're willing to put you down to make
themselves feel better.
Did you just get a promotion at work?
He'll tell you that you didn't deserve it, because inside, he's pissed that he didn't
get that promotion.
Let me ask you, have you ever dated a narcissist?
Leave your story below, and this is a great way to be a part of this amazing community
and share your story.
Also, if you enjoyed this video and you want to avoid those types of guys and find an amazing
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I will see you, you sexy lady, next week.
Bye-bye.
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