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Why men

Reject woman. Hello. Ladies and welcome to my youtube channel

I'm Alex comment your French relationship expert in this video

I want to go further because sometimes you're asking yourself but wine man, we checked woman

Oh why this man reject me he was into me he was liking me it was acting and then he disappears

he's maybe ghosting you this is a real question for a lot of women in this world and

First I want to tell you something

If someone is rejecting you or if men rejected a woman it's because they are not sure that you are really compatible

Why do I mean by that?

Men are looking maybe sometimes like you for the perfect connection for the perfect

situation and if they fear that

The present moment is not so good. There is not so much fun. It's too serious all the

Relationship will ask for too much effort

Then we say no. No, I don't want to be in a relationship

so if they are not ready if they are not enjoying the present moment and also

If they are not feeling that you are the perfect fit for them and if you ask yourself

But why how can you say that when we are just meeting for the first time?

Sometimes it's about the question the way you are really interested about knowing him

What is his favorite color?

Why where you wanna spend the perfect holidays?

Is the PTO's summer winter and with so this is the type of question

That can create the chemistry new connection because if you don't have this a man

Can sometimes we checked you even if you spend a good time together?

To the opposite when a woman is needed when a woman is too available

It could make a difference and change the situation

So the man will reject you or will reject a woman because she's too needy

She's too available and you will tell me about Alex

What is going wrong with this world?

And I'm completely agree with you

But you know as human we always give value to what we don't have this is stupid

But this is our society

This is how high walk also so this is part of us and you need to understand and to accept

that if you are too available to needy it starts with yourself, it starts with your self-confidence and

the best way to

Date someone have someone in your life is to start by working on yourself be the woman that you want to be

This is my philosophy and I can really help you with that

So if you have any question ask me in the comments below I will be here with my team to answer every single question

the last reason why men can pull away can just reject you just you know use is because

They are dating someone else

I don't know how to tell you that but then when I first came in, Miami

I settled in Miami and I just realized that dating in the u.s. Is not the same that dating in Europe

Sometime men can date multiple women, which is not really your case. Most of the woman that I'm coaching

They want to date or to have this specific man

To the opposite men that I'm coaching they want to know how to attract or to be charismatic

So then we talk to a lot of women and sometimes they can reject you because they are more attracted to someone else

And you know, what is funny they will come back to you

They will come back to you because that will not work with this woman. It will not be a connection

emotional it will be just a physical connection and that's why you have a lot of men that are rejecting you and

Coming back if this happened I would just ask you to not go too fast

In a relationship you need to take your time

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You can hear my french leash, but also receive a tip to change your love life if you want to go further

Come on, my website French relationship expert you have tons of articles and also you can download my free ebook

The truth about love it's in the description and on my website

So subscribe to this amazing youtube channel, and I will see you tomorrow for a new video

I look really forward to help you to change your love life because if men are rejecting you it's like a pattern

It's an a bit because you are doing some few things that we need to change together

So if you can do it with the videos, that's perfect

If you want a book a coaching session in one session

We can change your pattern. You can change your love bad habits, and I will be more than happy to

To be a coach to be a relationship expert. I wish you 2 more guys for the video. Bye

For more infomation >> Why Does he Reject You: I Give You the REAL Reasons! - Duration: 5:04.

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Why Do You Feel Like You're Being Watched? - Duration: 5:13.

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Ever feel someone watching you?

Like, you just know they're staring, even if you're not looking at them?

It's not some psychic sense, as cool as that would be.

Psychology researchers call it gaze detection—your ability to recognize where a person or animal is looking.

And even though we don't have all the answers about how it works in humans, science has provided some pretty good evidence as to what's going on in your brain.

Various studies suggest that gaze is processed preferentially by the brain, meaning it's processed faster and more accurately than some other kinds of stimuli.

Especially when it's on you, which is called direct gaze.

Your brain has a pretty big network of areas that handle different aspects of getting information from faces.

Like, there are regions that respond to shape, orientation, or specific features. That sort of thing.

And when it comes to gaze detection, scientists believe an area in this network called the Superior Temporal Sulcus, or STS, is responsible for telling you exactly where someone else is looking.

Studies looking at a comparable area in the temporal lobe of macaque monkeys found cells that are tuned to the orientation of both the head and gaze direction.

For instance, one study from 1985 had macaque monkeys look at faces of other macaques.

And they found that 63% of the 182 cells that were probed fired in response to changes in head direction.

More than half of that 63% also responded to changes in gaze direction, and a few responded to direct gaze.

Researchers assume the Superior Temporal Sulcus works similarly in humans, since performing the same sort of experiments in living humans is too invasive.

Now, it's easy enough for your brain to figure out where a gaze is pointed when you're looking right at someone.

But what about that feeling of being watched when you can't see someone's eyes clearly?

In your peripheral vision, the resolution becomes low enough that details are harder to see—like, where someone's pupils are with respect to the whites of their eyes.

In this situation, your brain starts to take head orientation as evidence of direct gaze instead.

Researchers studying this in 2015 tested how well participants could identify the gaze direction of faces with different orientations presented at different eccentricities.

They had participants stare straight ahead, so a face straight ahead would be 0 degrees eccentricity, and in line with their shoulders would be plus and minus 90 degrees eccentricity.

And they generally found people could accurately tell where a gaze was directed up to 6 degrees eccentricity.

Which isn't that much before we kind of start to suck at it.

Overall, gaze discrimination got less accurate farther away from zero degrees.

Which makes sense, because farther from zero degrees means more blurry peripheral vision.

As details of eyes became less clear, participants relied more on head orientation to figure gaze out.

This swayed their answers, and wasn't always accurate.

This and the results of a similar study from 2015 showed that if faces in the periphery were pointed right at participants, they were more likely to assume it was a direct gaze.

So, basically, if someone just out of your line of sight is facing you, your brain assumes they're looking right at you.

If their head is turned, you're more likely to assume they're not looking at you, no matter where they're actually looking.

And as for the spooky feeling of "that person behind me is looking at me, I can feel it" thing, there is an explanation for that too.

Even though nobody actually has eyes in the backs of their heads.

Turns out, we might just tend to assume people are looking at us.

All the time.

In research from 2013, scientists showed participants a series of faces and eyes under different levels of noise filter that basically made them look blurry.

Some were really clear, which made it easier to read the gaze.

And others were pretty obstructed, so they were less easy to guess at.

The researchers asked participants to judge whether or not the faces were looking at them.

And they found that in trials where the faces and eyes were obstructed by noise, participants were more likely to perceive the gaze as directed at them.

In real life, the scientists took this to mean that in situations where you can't know where people are looking—like when it's dark, someone's behind you, or they're wearing sunglasses—your brain is automatically making you feel watched.

And I mean, come on brain!

We're interesting, but not enough to be watched all day, every day, by everyone whose eyes we can't see.

It might sound like sort of a silly assumption if I put it that way.

But evolutionarily speaking, knowing when someone or something is looking at you could be really important.

They might be planning to attack, so it's best to be on guard.

Besides that, knowing if you're being watched also lets you interact socially.

If someone wants your attention, whether it's your friend or your baby, it's way easier to notice if you're already unconsciously scanning for people looking at you.

So sorry, you're not psychic.

You just have a solid and comprehensive and well-designed gaze detection system.

And that's just as cool, right?

Thanks for learning with us here on SciShow Psych, and thanks especially to our patrons on Patreon whose support makes all these videos possible.

If you want to join our community, you can go to patreon.com/scishow.

Or share this video with your friend who swears that he has a spidey sense for being watched.

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