Dating can be frustrating, disappointing,
not to mention time-consuming but how might
dating with purpose change everything?
Watch and find out. My name is Michelle
Baxo and for the best advice for
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Okay so let me guess, you want the next
person you commit to, to be the last
person you commit to, yes? Okay then
dating is the action to get you there
but you can't just go dating without
purpose or you might find yourself
giving up or dating a million men
without a man at the end of it. So I'm
gonna share with you three ways to date
with purpose so that you can cause
yourself a dating revolution. First, be
unapologetic for what you want. In other
words what is the purpose of you dating?
Is it for a life partner? Great, say that!
Saying that doesn't mean you're saying
that you want that guy sitting across
the table from you to be your life
partner. I mean, come on you hardly know
that guy. You're just saying, you're not
dating willy-nilly like maybe you did
when you were 16. You have purpose behind
your actions and that is powerful. You
can even bring this further. If you want
passion, start asking for it. Create date
ideas that pull for passion like tango
dancing or a beach fire. Was that first
kiss a little weak? Next time tell him to
grab you and kiss you like he means it.
Do you see what I mean? Being
unapologetic about what you want, is you
creating your purpose for dating. Now
take a minute and go down to the
comments and tell me what are some of
the things that you want? Practice now
being unapologetic. Make a declaration of
what you want, alright? Now the second
approach I want to give you for dating
with purpose is to date for the purpose
of your own expansion. Whatever you do
don't just make dating about what you
want. While the first suggestion I gave
you is powerful, it's also insufficient
and it will burn you out. So look at it
this way.
Imagine you're traveling and meeting all
kinds of different people. Don't you
learn so much about humanity and about
yourself when you do that? Bring that to
your date's. Now you're traveling your
own city beyond your limited view of
humanity and there is only so much to
gain from there. Just imagine
the difference if you had your
dating be about your own expansion in
that way. Alright and the third way for
you to bring purpose to your dating is
to date with pride. Shout it from the
rooftops!
Okay, this is an important conversation.
It is time for you to remove the
constraints that you have around dating
and looking for love. Are people around
you making you feel bad for still being
single? Screw them! Are others making you
feel like you shouldn't even want a
relationship? They're even worse! Do not
let others shame you around not having
what you want yet. You're allowed to want
whatever it is that you want and if you
want a chance of fulfilling it, you can't
be ashamed of it. If you're looking for
extraordinary love then I want you doing
this loud and proud! And the people in
your life best be getting behind you or
else you're just gonna have to wash out
that noise with how loud and proud you
are about what you want and how you're
gonna get it. So these are three ways
that you can bring purpose to your
dating life and I'm telling you they
have the capacity to revolutionize your
love life. Now can you tell this is a
different kind of conversation about
dating and love? This is power love! This
is what I'm talking about. And for many
of you, the next step is to sign up for
my free Power Love Workshop so you can
get more clear about what you want and
how to get it. Secondly, I want you to
listen to my interview with Laura
Kennedy from her Manifest Epic Love
Series. You're gonna hear some really
important conversations about power love.
For instance, you'll hear how setting
standards can be a sneaky way of not
having to risk your heart. You'll also
hear my personal story (which is a good one)
You'll hear about how achieving
power love is so much more than having a
checklist of traits. I could go on and on
but this is a conversation you'll want
to hear, so both those links will be in
the description below. Now you know I
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difference with. Love yourself, love your
life and fall in love... don't settle!
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