Hello my Loves! Let's talk about feelings. Let's get down deep into the
differences between how men and women feel. Ladies do not be fooled,
men are so good at hiding their feelings. In fact men were tested on their
feelings on machines that didn't let them lie, and then asked afterwards if
they lied about their feelings, and 67 percent of them said "Yes." Here's what
happened. There is a place in the UK called Mindlab. This is the company where
people who want to figure out what makes people tick, so they can make money off
how they tick, or they can control how they tick, they go to companies like this
and they say, "Tell me what I need to know." Because Mindlab studies us up and down
and has us figured out. So here's what they did. T,hey had men and women come in
separated them, sat them in front of monitors and attached them to things that were
basically like a lie-detector test. So testing their respiration, their heart
palpitations, the sweat coming off their body, all of it just to see what their
emotional response was to certain visual stimuli - funny, excited, blissful, or
heartwarming. Now here's what happened. When it came to funny, exciting, and
blissful, men equaled women's emotional response. When it came to heartwarming
men doubled women's emotional response. Incredible. They are really adept at
hiding their feelings, but in some cases their feelings run much deeper than ours.
We need to take this into account. We do have emotional differences, so when
it comes to heartwarming men have it so much more than us. Now you might ask why,
and here's the answer. When we make a baby together
what is going to encourage a man to go out and work harder and gain more so
that baby has a greater chance of survival? it's that feeling of heartwarming
he gets knowing that that baby is half his. Now there are feelings that women
own more than men. Ladies you're gonna know this one, it's called guilt. We've all
talked about the mommy guilt effect. Why do we own guilt more than men? Well guess
what, it goes back to that baby again. If we didn't care how much it thrived, if we
notice that the color was off, if the weight gain wasn't happening, and we
didn't have a sense of guilt over the survival of whether or not this baby
thrived, we wouldn't plug in and intervene before
it went to the next level and became something that was dangerous or damaging,
and did not allow that child to survive. So keep in mind when it comes to
emotions on some levels you are the same, ladies and gentlemen, but on other levels
you are not. So remember, heart warming is for men, guilt is for women. So appreciate
this emotional response that you have within yourself and appreciate it when
you see it in the other person. I'll talk to you soon!
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