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hi guys I haven't done a mukbang and forever like like forever literally I

think it's been like two or three weeks which so sorry I went to Wingstop I know

I'm gonna be better about trying more things to go to Hooters because it's so

close to my new place but bling stick it's not Pat my heart right now so I

think this is the first time I got something other than the hot wings I got

lemon pepper and some garlic parmesan oh and I got the combo so it seems with

either fries or veggie 6-figure guys you know get some veggies in okay

of course ranch I'm super hungry I think I'm just gonna go ahead and get into it

I feel like I haven't talked to you guys in forever I actually got a lot to say

today hmm let's get a lemon pepper I was craving the lemon pepper today I don't

know why so give this video a thumbs up if you like this background this is like

where my kitchen is I'm thinking of filming my mom's here mmm

you guys I think I found my soul mate seriously or it could just be that he

has all the qualities that I like so

that's always a possibility no but say a little prayer for me that this guy makes

move or something I don't know or I make a move on him and equality now

mmm there's gonna be basically all my love life

mmm so then all right ever date tomorrow which I think have to confirm that which

I'm actually excited about I should be like blah about dates but I think I'm at

a point now that I'm excited to go on dates and I think it's because of my

newfound appreciation for my body myself and know now I'm a body basically oh god

please don't think I'm conceited I say that basically just to make myself feel

it so

there's no space on that SD card what go ahead and get a garlic parmesan what was

I talking about oh yeah my lack thereof a love life I

think it's just more prevalent because it's about to be singles Awareness Day

guys oh my gosh I think my last Valentine's Day I did my first live on

here I'm gonna see if I can find it I'll link it down below mm-hmm I actually

don't mind being single which all my friends literally all my friends are in

relationships right now my philosophy is if I'm not in relationship that means I

need to be focusing on me so that's what I've been doing I've been going to the

gym working on my fitness mmm

just up ahead I promise guys I'm gonna do a different video this was just the

easiest thing to grab on the way home

let me know if you would want to see a Hooters video I've never actually had

their wings but like they're known for their wings it's not figure it's only

right for me to try hmm it's crazy in my resolution video I'll link it down below

or up here or something I said I wanted more relationships or to venture out and

I'm calling you out like as soon as I posted that someone messaged me was like

oh I think you're very pretty I want to take you out on a date I'm like whoa I

mean granted he thought he might it worked my videos I don't think he does

but if he does hey thank you so I'm editing now and I just want to clarify

it definitely sounds like I've never met that guy before I've met him before

Oh had to clear that up just in case all right carry on hmm

I love how Wingstop has their little all like combo Mills now because I usually

have to get a ten-piece because they don't have anything smaller than that

and I usually want like the sides of the carrot and stuff but by that mine I like

I'm already spinning ten bucks but this eight piece comes with veggie sticks

eight piece wings and I drink this is actually a diet root beer with the diet

vanilla root beer and a little bit of sparkling water because I don't like my

sodas - to sleep I figured I'd go all out

Cena's I don't really get you guys know this I don't really get sodas unless I'm

doing them up on oh that's cool I never really get to take advantage of like

those high-tech drink fountain drink now they just put one up in this wing stop

so I got a little fancy you know oh my I can't just get basic diet coke like

that's not fun they have like diet the anti like what I haven't had Fanta in

Jane it's probably been a year I was never a soda person though even when I

didn't start my weight loss mmm

I'm so rude I didn't even ask you guys how are you doing today anyone else

trying to get through this life looking for their soul mate I don't know why I'm

being so personal here I think it's just of course

I think I don't know lately I've been watching a lot of podcasts and they all

talk about relationships and I'm like oh my gosh like I never thought of talking

about that like when I do my phones cuz I usually like talking about something I

don't like just me eating I mean I know some people are like just eat I don't

even do it them not what do one know

okay one of them has to be good but yeah like

I was saying I've been listening to a lot more podcasts and it's basically

just like an into they're like full of lives and stuff you know what I mean

which I'm fascinated I don't know it's funny

I've seen some comments asking all like do you have a boyfriend nope

don't have a boyfriend I was never looking for one though

now I think I'm ready so if you guys know any good contenders and in Los

Angeles California will you've loved down in the description box below no I'm

totally kidding jack description I mean comment no but I will say it's actually

a whole nother beast dating in California I don't Los Angeles cuz

everyone's trying to get it I know I know I know

there is one contender though that I've had my eye on for a little while now

hmm I like the lemon pepper that's a lot of people's favorites but I wish I

woulda got the hot I mean don't get me wrong

lemon pepper is never a bad idea bad I do feel like someone's missing carrot

every time I eat a carrot I get so many people they're like is that Kino is that

cute oh I'm like you couldn't fit carrots in to your macros obviously you

shouldn't be eating we're gonna carrot but honestly guys I horrible eyes so I

made some carrots because I heard that those help with your eyesight I don't

know if I should but I don't want them to get worse no I think as long as you

like can guesstimate I'm so not like a hundred percent to the cheek you know

and it I don't think I ever will be and I think that's okay hopefully the people

that do find you know find me in they don't think of me as the end-all be-all

for keto and they do their own research like I've have because everyone is

slightly different but yeah but anyway on to this perfect guy that I'm talking

about literally though he's kind of like too perfect you know those late

when you find someone you usually find a fall that's you're like oh perfect he's

not perfect I haven't found a flaw yet and that makes me nervous I will say

everyone around me it's all celebrating like they're like one-year anniversary

and stuff I'm like oh my gosh I'm literally on that third little friend

and I'm not I don't mind I don't I don't mind but I'm at the point now where I'm

like I don't want to be third role gonna be double date you know what I mean

I need someone that wants to eat wings with me you're so good and this is

probably gonna be my only meal for the day

I haven't been hungry lately I think transitioning back into keto I actually

experienced this when I first started the first time I just wasn't hungry and

I'm like I don't have a taste for anything which I'm a firm believer in

listening to your body and I usually all I do one wheel when I eat lean stop cuz

is higher in calories you know just because I'm on keto I don't count

calories and I don't think I were well but has Escher's there's no way of

knowing

but I do assess the situation these are fried and oil

this is ranch this this is a little bit higher in calories so I can ieave and

think I can have a big meal for dinner I'll probably have a salad if I'm hungry

though honestly I've been trying to get more veggies in that's on to why I got

the combo because it had some celery and carrots and I was like I need some

veggies because I don't have a fridge still it's supposed to be coming soon

let's be coming soon deliver you actually have to take off work for that

which I don't mind but yeah pretty much I'm talking to you guys about my love

life that's all I'm thinking about right now I'm like I'm 25 I'm going through a

quarter life crisis I'm like should I be in a relationship because everyone

around me is

all my people that are married when did you find your significant other and when

did you get married I like don't have a good reference point because my mom and

dad got married like when they were teenagers you know I'm like yeah by this

point like by this age my mom had already had me so I'm like I don't even

feel like ready for a kid oh but I see so many people around me that are

younger than me that have kids that are unlike their second and third I'm like

oh my god am I ready for ahead I don't know cuz every time I see a kid I get

baby fever but that has been me since I was a kid since I was like 10

and I think it's from my mom cause my mom's a teacher so every baby that we

thought we'd be like oh my gosh so cute oh and I still do that to this day but

yeah oh I think I'm getting fooled though really fool yeah pretty much

I'm out here trying to find someone that

will want to go to dinner out with me

and wings up I don't even take them to Buffalo Wild Wings mmm there's actually

a Buffalo Wild Wings like right where a movie theater is I'm like an easy day

like hello I'm just an but besides trying to find a boo I've been on my

fitness kick which one of the guys that could be a potential is at the gym so

it's kind of like good force with me to go so I could possibly see him

No totally it's for me and wanted to get slim thick and blah blah blah no but

honestly well it's tough out here guys it's tough out here and people left and

right I just fighting people I'm like how how

one of my friends found her bill they set up like a photography thing she's a

model they've been together for a year oh my are you serious nothing one of my

friends we were on the cruise I don't know if you guys are new here I went on

a cruise a couple months ago she found him at the cruise oh my oh my gosh okay

so I feel like it's only natural but I'm gonna find my boo at the gym right cuz

literally that's not my place I'm gonna be besides work the gym so it's gonna

have to be a gym guy come on you don't want to be in shape we can get in shape

together

mm-hmm this is so bad I think I'm done though I've been rambling too much about

my love life I don't want to say too much but go on say a little prayer for

me that this guy that I've been looking at trying to howl at you know like

either I work up the courage to talk to him or he talks to me like come on guys

like I'm a catch I just have to keep saying that does I believe it you know

hey positive affirmations to be myself I am great I am awesome I am like hitch

ah I am so loopy today it's good to be back I still have a lot of unpacking to

do but it's really good to be back filming

I have been going crazy and not filming and I just want to say thank you to all

the new people like I got a crazy amount of people that came from my probably my

milk prep video but people that have came and stuck around I've seen all your

comments are usually comment back but I've just been so busy with this move so

it actually I'm to let you guys know that I see all the love I appreciate it

and thank you so much I'm excited that you people are finding me if you guys

have any requests let me know in the comments down below as always if you

guys do like these types of videos and want me to make more month bugs you know

what to do don't forget to like this video comment anything out I will read

it and I will see you guys in the next video

you

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You NEED This Dating App! - Duration: 3:42.

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Is Luke Evans Dating Jon Kortajarena Again? | SML TV - Duration: 5:01.

Is Luke Evans Dating Jon Kortajarena Again?

According to WhosDatedWho, Luke Evans has been dating his boyfriend, Jon Kortajarena, since 2014, but Just Jared reported that the couple dated a few years back, but called it quits at some point.

On the other hand, Just Jared also has reported that they may be back together.

In Spring 2017, Kortajarena posted, and then deleted, some photos on Instagram from his recent trip to Budapest, where Evans has been filming.

Evans also posted a photo from his birthday and gave a shout out to a mystery person, writing, "What an amazing bunch of people.

Thank you for an amazing birthday.

Just missing one special someone … you know who you are." Perhaps he was talking about Kortajarena.

Earn the Necklace reported that Evans later revised the caption on his birthday photo, simply writing, "What an amazing bunch of people." See a photo of Kortajarena below.

Throughout his career, Evans has been openly gay, explaining to TIME in 2002 that, "Everybody knew me as a gay man, and in my life in London I never tried to hide it … I don't think I'd be in this business if I felt that I was not being employed because of who I am in my personal life.

I don't know how 'Hollywood', as you call it, thinks … I don't feel they're connected.

Talent, success, what you do in your personal life – I don't see how one should have an effect on the other.

If I'm going to be a poor man at 60, then at least I've lived a happy, open, gay life and not had to hide it from anybody.".

Though Evans has been transparent about his sexuality, he also previously told The Jackal that he likes to keep his personal life private.

He explained, "I try to keep my personal life and my private life separate.

"Not for any reason other than there's a clue in the title—it's private.

As an actor you have to keep some sort of enigma and mystery.

There's a dignity to keeping private.

I'm trying to keep a bit of dignity to my private life and to protect the people in my life … It's the choice I've made.".

As for Jon Kortajarena, he also works in entertainment.

According to Out, Kortajarena is a Spanish model and actor, known for A Single Man and Quantico.

In the past, Evans has also been linked to a woman named Holly Goodchild.

In 2016, Evans told Mr Porter that he was single, according to Bustle.

Evans said that he was using his single status for, "finding contentment with myself, and not relying on anybody else to validate it … I think being an only child has hindered that slightly because I've always wanted to be around other people." He also, again, stressed the importance of keeping his personal life out of the spotlight.

Currently, Evans stars on the period drama The Alienist, which also stars Dakota Fanning as the first female member of the New York Police Department.

On the show, Evans' character is an illustrator, who often enjoys the company of prostitutes.

New episodes of the show air Monday nights on TNT at 9 p.m.

ET/PT.

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Fourteen Common Problems INFJs Deal With In Their Dating Lives - Duration: 7:34.

14 Common Problems INFJs Deal With In Their Dating Lives

INFJ are quiet, empathetic dreamers with huge hearts, INFJs are one of the rarest personality

types, which naturally, makes them quite odd.

It's their strangeness that makes them come off as mysterious and intriguing to others,

but it's often their strangeness that creates problems within their dating lives.

Here are 14 common romantic problems INFJs deal with in their lives.

1.

INFJs get frustrated when they make an attempt to connect with someone and the person fails

to share their enthusiasm.

INFJs can read people extremely well, so when they make an attempt to connect with someone

on a deeper level or discuss something that means a lot to them, they can instantly tell

when the other person isn't on the same wavelength as them.

This leads them to wonder why they even bothered at all and makes them more hesitant to reveal

other things about themselves in the future.

2.

They want to believe in the best in their partner (even if it comes at a cost to their

well being).

This doesn't mean that INFJs are perfect in relationships.

They obviously have their share of faults too, but INFJs are one of the least likely

personality types to give up on their partner.

Although they know there are issues, and even when they know within their bones something

isn't working out, they will fight for their relationship longer than they should.

3.

They can falter to their weaknesses if they get into a relationship with the wrong person.

INFJs are very easily affected by the energy and environment around them.

Their most successful relationships are with strong people who can lift them up and help

them realize their potential (as INFJs are highly idealistic).

If they end up in an unhealthy relationship with a lot of chaos or uncertainty, it can

bring out the worst in them.

4.

If it's obvious a new dating situation is going nowhere, they will end it so they can

put their energy elsewhere.

While INFJs are completely capable of casual dating, they feel most fulfilled in longterm

relationships or connections with people that go deeper than the surface.

If they get the gut instinct this is only a temporary thing and there's nothing else

to sustain what you have with them besides sex, they'll quickly find a way out.

5.

Even in the best relationship they can often feel a sense of loneliness and isolation.

The thing about INFJs is that they're known as not only being strange people, but for

having a great self-awareness about it.

Although they might be happy in their relationship and content with their dating life, INFJs

can still feel a great deal of loneliness and a lack of feeling understood.

This leads to them needing time alone to deal with what they're experiencing within.

6.

It can be difficult to let someone else in, even if they want to get close to them.

INFJs hold their wounds close to their heart.

The things that they've overcome that have made them who they are today can be difficult

to reveal, even to the people they love and care for the most.

This creates problems in their relationships when their partner tries to break down their

walls and has a hard time getting through.

7.

They can get too in their head about things.

INFJs can be intense people.

One of their flaws is overthinking things that are much simpler than they make them

out to be or over analyzing situations before they proceed.

8.

INFJs prefer to live an unconventional lifestyle.

They aren't driven by the same things (wealth, material items) as most of society and are

more interested in experiences vs possessions.

They need something a little different in life to feel content and fulfilled, and sometimes

this can create problems in dating if they find themselves with a partner who grew up

(and wants) a more traditional lifestyle.

9.

They have a hard time connecting with someone who can't slow down and enjoy the little

moments in life.

INFJs have difficulty in bonding with people who live a fast paced life or have to constantly

be surrounded by other.

It's not that INFJs can't develop happy relationships with extroverts, but they need

a partner who places an emphasis on one-on-one experiences together, because that is where

an INFJ truly flourishes.

It's the moments when you're doing seemingly nothing together except just hanging out and

talking, sharing your stories and thoughts that an INFJ feels like they are really bonding

with you.

10.

INFJs struggle with bouts of depression.

As creative types, INFJs can struggle with depression during moments of artistic blocks

or when they don't feel like the work they've produced is good enough.

Other times they deal with periods of sadness when they're feeling particularly lonely

or misunderstood (as mentioned previously).

Their feelings about their artistic work and inability to feel understood can affect their

relationships if their bout of depression lasts long.

11.

The inner world of an INFJ is so much more than what you see on the outside but it takes

time for them to reveal that side to others.

INFJs have an innate ability to develop rich inner worlds they can retreat to when the

outside world becomes too much.

Their inner-self closely mimics the personality of an ENFP – energetic, fearless, and outgoing.

It's not that they have a problem bringing these two sides of themselves together to

be a thoughtful, witty, outgoing person in social settings, but it usually isn't until

they feel comfortable with people to really show their true personality.

12.

INFJs can be easily disappointed.

They are highly idealistic and are always dreaming up some new big idea, not only for

themselves, but to share with their partner and loved ones.

The problem comes when they forget to maintain a level of realism and find their ideas blowing

up in their face.

The easiest way to deal with this is for their partner to help keep them grounded during

their bouts of daydreaming.

13.

They can be just as self-absorbed as they can be loving and generous with their time

and attention.

While INFJs are known to be self-sacrificing in their relationships, they also can be just

as easily self-absorbed depending on what's going on in their life.

They want their partner to be just as enthusiastic about their life's endeavors and pursuits

as they are but, obviously, this doesn't always happen.

While they are warm-hearted and empathetic individuals, they can also go off into their

own world and forget about others until they come back out again.

14.

Sometimes their greatest romantic interests will turn into nothing because INFJs rarely

initiate anything in dating.

INFJs have a problem with being the first one to show interest or to reveal their feelings

when it comes to matters of the heart.

They would much rather observe the other person, over analyze every possible situation and

outcome, and slowly test the waters before even giving a small piece of themselves.

Even if they have great admiration for someone or get a big crush on another person, an INFJ

will often bury that feeling within themselves until they feel (through their observations)

that the other person is also interested.

Unfortunately, this isn't a great dating method and leaves INFJs wondering what could

be with someone all because they refused to initiate anything.

All in all, that's the 14 Common Problems INFJs Deal With In Their Dating Lives.

Really cool information isn't it!

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Cardi B Interviews Zendaya About Fear, Dating and Being "Hood" - Duration: 2:32.

Cardi B Interviews Zendaya About Fear, Dating and Being "Hood"

  Cardi B got the inside scoop on Zendayas greatest fear, dating and being hood in an interview for CR Fashion Book. Both women have experienced tremendous success in the entertainment industry.

Just look at their recent track record! Cardi B received two Grammy nominations for her song Bodak Yellow and Zendaya starred in the award-winning film The Greatest Showman.

Still, both women know money and fame cant buy happiness and that stardom can come with a lot of pressure.

Sometimes, as a young person in this industry, I put a lot of pressure on myself to do the right thing. I think this is a flaw of mine, Zendaya said when asked about her biggest fear.

I get so afraid to make the wrong decisions, but I have to understand that Im only 21 years old. Im not going to always be perfect.

You cannot let the fear of not being perfect stop you from doing anything at all. I still have a lot of things left to do in my career and its okay to frickin learn from a situation and grow from it..

Finding a partner who understands the demands of living in the limelight can also be a challenge. Thats why Zendaya said it can be helpful to date someone who is in the same industry.

Theres just certain things in our lives thats hard for people to understand if they dont live it. Like if I have to explain what a call time is or why I have to start glam early.

Im not just sitting around all day. Im on camera, Im shooting, Im working, I cant have my phone, she said. But that doesnt mean somebody whos not in the industry cant understand it or wouldnt want to learn or understand it..

Despite all of their fame, both stars havent forgotten their roots. To me, you seem so angelic. You know, you are the Disney star. You seem like such a sweetheart.

But…I know youre from Oakland. My best friend is from Oakland, and shes hood as f-ck. That b--ch is a f--king gangster. Do you think that you got some hood in you? Cardi B asked.

Absolutely, there is definitely 'hood in me and it will never leave, Zendaya replied.

Its part of who I am, as it is part of my family. In fact, Zendaya said shes proud and lucky to have been born and raised in Oakland.  My aunties held Black Panther party meetings in the downstairs basement of our house that I grew up in, she said.

You learn so much from those experiences and from those stories.. Cardi B and Zendayas interview appears in the 12th issue of CR Fashion Book. The issue hits newsstands Mar.

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7 Signs You Might Be Dating A Toxic Lover - Duration: 8:59.

If you're worried that you're dating Cruella DeVille and your boo's (boyfriend or girlfriend) is about to

skin you alive and turn you into a skin jumpsuit with nips you have come to the

right place. I'm about to drop on you the seven signs that you are dating and

toxic twotsickle (idiot) I'm Ang and welcome to SS101. If it is your first time don't worry

I'll be gentle, and also guys please subscribe I post

every single Tuesday and don't forget to give this video a thumbs up if it hits

you in all the right places. Now, before I go on to the seven signs that you are

datings a toxic lover I do want to talk about something that I think that we can

get caught up in. The reason it is a little bit difficult to see it in our

own relationships and easier for us to see in our friends is because it tends

to be a bit of a slow burn. These people are really clever manipulators and the

difficult thing with that is, is that it happens over an extended period of time.

They create these environments where you become like a junkie vying for your next

hit. So, they create an environment where you need to look for their approval,

their attention, their love, and they use these things against you to control you

in future. So anyway, these are the seven signs and I hope that they help you find

a break in your relationship and also guys if you have any other suggestions

please write them below because I want you to shed some light on another poor

love who may be facing the same thing so here goes.

Number one - Conditional love and compliments so this one is one that we

all do in small amounts and this is something that I want you to pay

attention to. What it is, is it's consistently inconsistent. So before I go confusing you,

I will drop some psychology on you. This is a behavioral

psychology tactic, where what you do is when someone does something you give

them positive reinforcement to increase the probability of that behavior

occurring again. What does that actually mean, right? Think of it this way, when you

toilet-train your pet, you give them treats when they go in the right place.

All this is, is your treats for doing something that they want you to do is

their attention or love or or whatever. That's what you need to pay attention to.

This is only when you are doing something that they want you to do and

that's where you've got to look at the the consistently inconsistent. If they

are consistently only giving you attention when

you're behaving, you know, like a good little puppy - then that's when you need

to pay attention. Number two - They are never wrong. These people seem to know

everything about everything, they're experts and if you ever dare - which how

dare you ever dare - to challenge them or question them or disagree with them on

anything they'll meet you with something that is completely entirely passive

aggressive like "well everyone I've ever spoken to agrees with me" and it makes

you doubt yourself it makes you question who you are and what you think and also

you may find yourself not questioning them because you want to just keep the

peace because if you do it causes a huge argument. The biggest thing here that I

want you to pay attention to; if someone is not building you up and they're just

breaking you down then you need to check yourself in the relationship and maybe

just run far far far away. Number three - They only said it because they were

angry but they didn't mean it because they were angry. Okay this relates

entirely to arguments, what these people do is they go into arguments not to

resolve the issue but to actually break you down or to hurt you then they'll

come back and say oh no I didn't mean it I only said it because I was angry. The

thing with this is that these people are just upset or they're just sorry because

it hurt you not because they didn't mean what they said and if you've ever said

anything in a relationship in the heat of the moment it usually is because you

actually mean it deep down or there are unresolved issues there and so the

question that you need to ask yourself here is why would someone want to be

with you or why would you want to be with someone who you then want to hurt

that badly or break down that badly? I mean, the thing is we see our lovers

often, more often than not, in this all-holy light like they are just magical

creatures and it's because we want to see them that way we want them to be

what we want them to be and that can cloud our ability to be able to look at

the actual facts of it which is why do they want to destroy us and this is the

biggest thing with these toxic people what I was saying were consistently

inconsistent if they give you all this love and then they break you down that

is consistently inconsistent with their affection and their love and their doing

that as a controlling tactic. Number four - they use sex to control.

Now, there's a few ways that this can go they can either give you sex

if you've been a good puppy, or abstain from it, or something that I see a lot of

which is using guilt in order to get sex. Now the biggest key here is sex should

never be used as a bargaining chip unless both parties are aware of it and

it's a bit of fun or its trade off or whatever but the thing is sex should

never be used as a bargaining chip in a relationship it should never be used in

any form of psychological manipulation no matter what the circumstances are and

also guys it can stay with you long after this relationship has died. These

zombie of this relationship sex tactics may stay with you long term and affect

your future relationships so always be careful guys when sex is used in a

manipulative way to be able to encourage your increase or stop it occurrence from

happening. Why am i stuttering? Number five - I'm not allowed to. Okay this

one's really weird to me because it's almost like you're 12 years old again

and you've got to ask your parents if you can go and have a sleepover at a

friend's house. Yeah. What will happen is in the early stages of relationships I

mean we all want to spend time with our new BAE I mean it's amazing and it's

great we love them and by whatever bullshit bullshit. Yeah. So that's

fantastic but then what happens is when you want to go and spend time with your

squad you get greeted with guilt or they want to one-up you or they just want to

start a fight with you before you go out the whole thing here is and this should

get a lot more attention than it does this is a really big warning sign for

long-term psychological or physical abuse. The biggest thing that people do

you who are controlling or toxic is they try to cut you off from anyone and

anything that makes you feel independent, that brings you independence, and this

happens with your friends and family. The worst part of this is it does occur so

slowly and what they will try to do is they'll isolate you so that you feel as

though they are the only person in your life that can offer you support. So when

they do break you, when they are consistently inconsistent with their

love, then they are the ones that comfort you and hurt you. See how that's a little

bit counterproductive. Number six - The blame game. Every single time you go to

them with any problem in a relationship or any constructive criticism

it is your fault, in fact, you are the one who's being ridiculous and they probably

have said to you maybe once or twice or more than that that their ex never

complained about it, or some other ridiculous comment like that that makes

you question what you're saying because you know you're the one who's being

absurd, right? Studies have shown that insecure people are a lot less likely to

take responsibility for the bad things that happen in their life than secure

people and you'll find with toxic individuals is that what they do is they

then blame everyone else for their problems it just doesn't happen in the

relationship if anything goes wrong in their life it's not their fault because

hey you know they're perfect right and this is where it gets really problematic

for you you can't really fix problems you can't speak to them you can't

resolve things because you're so busy trying to cater for their ego and you

know where is it gonna end with that one? When it comes to ego, that brings me to

number seven which is narcissistic nonsense. Now, this is a really big one

what you get with these toxic individuals or controlling people is

that they will vomit up on to you all of this narcissism, this egomaniac behavior

will usually occur when you're being a boss and winning in your life, or feeling

independent, or feeling awesome. Once again I said it before if people are

trying to break you down instead of building you up don't walk away don't

step away run run far far away from these people because they are so

dangerous to your mental health, to your confidence, to your self belief, to

everything that makes you who you are and that will keep you thriving

throughout your life regardless of whether or not they're in it. The problem

with these narcissistic people is they'll remind you of how many people

want them and how lucky you are if you were really that lucky you wouldn't need

reminding because you would know it yourself. This all comes from really

really heavy lot of insecurities and issues on their behalf this is where I

want you to be really careful. I know that you want to put on your little cape

and go and rescue them but this is for them to rescue themselves. The problem

with this is if they keep getting rescued by everyone else they're never

going to resolve any of these problems and then they're gonna keep treating

people - wonderful people like you - in a really negative way. I really hope that

this helps you avoid any dodgy relationships and also guys if you have

anything to add please write it in the comments below and don't

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