But I did definitely try to communicate what I wanted and it ended badly
But actually it was good in the long run because.
You have to communicate, that's numero uno.
Even like with....I would love to be really confident when it come to like giving head.
and all that stuff but I think I do always feel like, OK just let me know what you like
because....Sure you could be just down there doing your thing and its shit and if they don't tell you
You can't fix it. I have a routine, actually in my latest special, I have a thing about GPS for the bedroom
But I very much put it in the realm of the woman needs to let the guy know
Because women are more complicated. But I understand that women...You need to tell us too
I had a guy. I slept with a 43 year old....THATS NOT DES!
They know what they're doing!
Yeah but it was nearly too much. It was like. Nearly too like not letting it go with the flow
But he did say something about licking balls and I got such a fright because I didn't know that was a thing
That you guys liked
Really, licking balls! Hey come on that's elementary! We need to talk.
I am kidding, I am not shaming you
This is like late 20s. And I told my Irish girlfriends and they didn't know.
Then I told my American girlfriends and they were like OMG what is wrong with you
You didn't know that. And I was like, NO! And my first thought that went through my head was
Oh my God men are dogs.
But then I was like. Ok get over it, Do it. Well your first thought was correct. Men are dogs.
But then when I did it and its like, OK its very attractive for the other person to be pleasured
So then it was fine but I was like, why didn't somebody tell me this.
I have been in 3 serious relationships. Yeah I can't believe that you weren't told.
No one ever told me, yeah.
I mean it's nice when it happens but it's not like the numero uno thing for me.
But I wonder is that an Irishmen thing as well where they are a bit mortified to kind of communicate
what they want, where as American men are like "um can you please lick my balls?"
I think American men are head pushers. I think a lot of men are just head pushers right?
Oh no!!!! I don't like that. I know... I don't do it but I have heard a lot of women complaining about the head pushing
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