today I want to talk to you about why taking risks in dating is good hi lady
Jaki Sabourin here your executive love coach and CEO of engaged in any age
of company that helps women deliberately date and consciously create the man of
their dreams as you know I met and married my own soulmate match husband
Michael Michael after being single for eight years and
I'm still in the honeymoon can you tell and passionate about helping you get
engaged did any age and you know what I really am still on the honeymoon we've
been together for six years and I've never been happier we are just as happy
as can be and and so I want to talk to you about why taking risks is good when
dating because I took a risk I mean relationships can be risky because we're
always afraid we might get hurt but guess what we might not we might find
the love of our life and so you I want to give you some tips that you can
follow and some support on why taking risks is good when dating and make sure
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again for being on my channel alright let's dive right in so I want
you to stop living in fear when it comes to you know taking risks like I don't
want to take a risk but the bigger the risk the bigger the gain that's just the
way life works the bigger the risk you're willing to take the bigger
possible outcome that you can have so you have to stop living in fear that's
the first tip I'm going to give you both evidence appearing real and you need to
start taking deliberate action steps ok deliberate action
so these are risk but their deliberate risks they you need to take so that you
can open up and let love in your life and so that that second tip is taking
deliberate action steps and so what kind of deliberate action steps can you take
well the first one that you can take is leaving the house that's deliberate but
I'm just kidding but what I want you to do is to start to look at your calendar
okay this is a great action step that you can take right now get out the
calendar we've got August and September coming up August is a beautiful month
and I want you to look at your calendar and I want you to plan out and whatever
time of year that you end up watching this video it's gonna apply to you and I
want you to see what you have going and write down everything you you the
obligations you already have and I want you to find something to do every week
that gets you out of the house and puts you out in an environment where there
are men could be as simple as going to the coffee shop make sure you choose a
coffee shop that has the type of men that you're interested in dating so if
you want an executive type of man then go do the Starbucks it's near the cut
the building where the men go to get their coffee during their coffee breaks
here in the morning my husband goes to Starbucks right down the street every
morning at 8:45 on his way to work and when I've gone there to meet him I look
around and there is about ten other business men on their way to work if
they see you there consistently you can track up a conversation with them so
this is what coffee shop is the coffee shop angle is really really good so take
a risk go there consistently show up so they start to recognize you and see you
and pretty soon you can say how is your day going that's a risk turn around in
line and say to the man next to you or the woman just to get comfortable
so take more risks by setting up a social calendar and being deliberate and
planning out things you're gonna do to get out of your comfort zone you have to
get out of your comfort zone because that's where your man is he is not in
your current comfort zone let's talk about comfort zones for a minute and so
your comfort zone is where you're comfortable right it's where you feel
safe it's your safety net but there's no evolution in that because you you're not
really yourself in a position to interact with
men maybe engage with men and and your mind might be telling you rationalize so
it's rationalizing staying in that comfort zone
rationalizing well there's no good men out there or I put on a few pounds or
I'm too old whatever the excuses that your mind's throwing up consistently
that's keeping you stuck and I want you to really look at that so the thing is
you do have to step out of your comfort zone but the wonderful thing about doing
this is you're going to go from comfort and then you're gonna step out of that
by taking these deliberate action steps to discomfort there's gonna be a certain
amount of discomfort you're gonna have to go through with that and believe me
I've been there I know what I know what that feels like and I have a certain
amount of discomfort right before I hit the record button on the video there's a
certain amount of discomfort you know they have to face it's about accepting
yourself right to have to accept myself and so I want you to just go through
that natural paradigm shift from comfort to discomfort we have to really accept
yourself love to yourself change some of your behavior put yourself out of those
coffee shops out online starting to engage with men making a social calendar
going to a couple of nc you haven't gone to before because what's gonna happen is
very soon you're going to become very comfortable with that only guess what
you're gonna go back to comfort again but your zones gonna have grown you're
gonna have a bigger zone you're gonna go from comfort to discomfort back to
comfort again only now your zones grown so get out of your comfort zone and get
into the unknown where your man is and so I just want you to remember that
relationships help you grow and that's why it's good to take risks it's amazing
to take risks because you you may meet the man of your dreams in the line of
Starbucks I mean it's happened to one of my clients who was in the baggage claim
line when she was checking her baggage after being away for a month there was a
man behind her and because she's been practicing the the statement that I
teach all my clients and I want you to start practicing - how's your day going
that's a risk I want takes okay how is your day going that's
another tip and what's gonna happen is he's gonna start to interact with you
you're it's a simple question so she turned around asked him how's your day
going and guess what happened he said it's great how's yours they end
up having coffee they both had the same layover he asked you to dinner
long story short she moved to the destination that she was visiting and is
now living with her soul mate and they're living happily ever after love
happens fast ladies but you got to get out of your comfort zone and you have to
take some risks in dating so that you can have what you
want okay because nothing changes until you do and just remember how long do you
want to be single if you know if you're really motivated
to not be single anymore than you need to take some risks and so
get online dating you know online dating is fantastic if you haven't experienced
success with that that's because you're not doing it right
and I have a lot of training videos about how to successfully date online
and meet your husband that's how I met mine and so many women
are meeting their men online now so you don't even have to leave your house do
you have a great profile and to interact with men so that's something you really
want to reconsider if you haven't had success in the past but you're ready now
I can help you and here's another tip I want you to remember and a risk that you
need to take because it's really risky because guess what your family is
watching and you're not taking these risks and you're and you're comfortable
and you're in your comfort zone and you're not meeting men your family's
watching your children your your siblings your friends they want you to
be happy and they see that you're alone and it troubles them and so you know
keep that in mind they want to see their mother happy that your friends want to
see you happy in a relationship time for you to join the couple's group and get
out of the singles group right and I can also help you with that so take more
risks so that you can catapult yourself into the next chapter of your life
that's what a risk does it catapults you into the next chapter of your life and
so the next risk I want you to take is flirt with the man okay you can even ask
him out you can and here's how you ask a man out you're
talking to a man and you're like oh yeah there's this concert tomorrow night that
I'm going to at the they're doing this salsa dancing add to one of the hotels
and I thought I'm gonna go and take take a lesson and then here's what you say
you go you should come and so it's an indirect way to ask a man
out you go you should come you should join me it's
at the Marriott you should come so you're not really saying do you want to
go out but you're just drawing it out there and then he might go maybe I will
what time did you say it six o'clock hey maybe I'll see you there so you're
just planning these little seeds so you should come is a great way to ask a man
out without being really forward and direct so try that on I mean what do you
have to lose so he shows up there's all a lot of other people there you guys
don't click not a lot of pressure right there's other people around so make sure
if they you should come to an event a gathering a party something that is open
where he could come and feel comfortable and so I hope this was helpful I want to
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today bye
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