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Good Trouble | Zuri Adele and Sherry Cola on Implicit Bias in Dating | Freeform - Duration: 5:26.If you think online dating sucks,
try doing it as a black woman.
Based on data from sites like OkCupid and Tinder,
black women are more likely than any other demographic
to get rejected!
And if we do get matched,
we are often subjected to sexualized stereotyping
from people trying to pass that sh*t off as flirting.
Like, my character, Malika, calls out in Good Trouble.
[Davia] Oh, he's cute.
"I like my women like I like my coffee ...
black and bitter."
No.
Sorry, I did not see that.
It's true.
While we've seen some progress for diversity
and inclusion in the streets,
we haven't really seen it in the sheets.
Which Malika experienced herself.
Last call. You want anything else?
Sure.
Your number, please.
Yeah, I don't think so.
Really?
You remember when you swiped left on this?
Big mistake.
Huge.
Wait a minute pretty woman.
What are you talking about?
You're on Shipper.
I swiped right on you and yet we never matched
because you didn't think I was worthy.
I would have never swiped left on you. Nope.
I bet none of the matches on your phone look like me.
Let's see.
[Isaac] You wanna see? [Malika] Yeah.
Okay.
Well, let me just ...
You said it yourself, you're more of a Kate Hudson guy.
Hold on, this is not really—
You seem like a nice guy.
But I just don't feel right giving my number to somebody who,
subconsciously or not, wrote me off without a thought.
But that's just one end of our racially divided dating pool.
Because we have a history of segregation
and racial division across the board,
it's unlikely that anyone would want to date someone
who doesn't look like they do.
Which is partly why, when we look for a partner
to start our own family with,
our instinct is to replicate those bonds and who we made them with.
Which plays into why Asian men are less likely
to be deemed desirable by non-Asian women.
Listen, how many times have you seen an Asian man
cast as a heart-throb in a Summer blockbuster?
Actually, I can answer that for you.
It was exactly once.
August 15th 2018.
AKA Crazy Rich Asians day.
So, what's going on?
Well, it could be a couple things.
One is that people tend to be attracted to what they know.
To what's familiar.
And for reasons that range from economic status,
to education level, to cultural heritage,
our circles are still pretty segregated across racial lines.
So, you head out as a mono-cultural girl,
into a multi-cultural world, and the media fills in the blanks for you.
We don't just see this happening in dating apps.
Experts say that these trends mirror
what we see in the dating world in real life.
This is despite most people saying that they are
super open to an interracial relationship.
This also helps explain why women of African descent get no love.
Since we're almost always portrayed as angry,
loud,
difficult.
The opposite of what's considered conventionally feminine.
So, whether it's because of sh*tty representation in media,
or our country's racist track record, or both,
it's clear that there's something rigging the dating game
to be much blander than it could be.
And that something is implicit bias.
Implicit bias is a snap judgment you make about a person
based on your preconceived notions.
And you don't even realize you're doing it.
That's the implicit part.
And sometimes, implicit bias leads us to decide
a person's desirability based purely on race.
And from there, the cycle of rejection perpetuates itself.
Dating apps use an algorithm
that ranks your desirability based on how many people
swipe right or left on you.
If everyone is swiping left on your profile,
you'll get buried under people who are supposedly more desirable.
So, your implicit bias, that causes you to swipe left
on people who don't even look like you,
is screwing everyone over.
Now, we know what some of you are thinking ...
"I'm not racist, I just like what I like."
Sure. And yes, that's okay!
But, make sure you're actually seeing what's out there,
not just what's fed to you by an algorithm
driven by our collective biases.
Which brings me to the good news.
Although the OkCupid study gave us a pretty grim outlook
for anyone looking to dip their toe into interracial waters,
another study from the year earlier found something else.
Something hopeful.
It found that, once a user got a message
from someone of a different race,
meaning, once initial contact had been established,
interactions with other people of that race
went up by 115%!
What that tells us is our implicit biases
really can be eroded.
They're not set in stone.
So, keep that in mind.
Next time you fire up your thumbs
for another round of swiping ...
you never know who you might find.
Share this video if you think it's time
to diversify date night.
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Dating Around Review (Netflix Dating Show) - Duration: 1:21.Dating Around is a series where each stand alone episode a "real life single" goes
on five first dates.
The goal?
Find out what beautiful babe or babette they'll be taking on a second date.
It has intriguing conversations.
No judgement.
And complex problem solving.
Let's go through this wholesome content together.
Episode 1 sucks cause the main character is boring.
Episodes 2, 3, 4, and 6 all have better lead characters but it's still mostly mundane
with some good moments here and there.
Episode 5 I like, since the interactions are actually interesting.
And you know I had to make a montage of rejection.
I should also add that I'd totally go on a date with this man's mustache.
Anyway, watch episode 5 if this is your sort of thing and I'll see you on the next one.
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Royal news : Prince Harry feared he was going 'to be left on the shelf' before dating Meghan Markle - Duration: 4:29.Royal biographer Katie Nicholls says the 34-year-old was "lonely" before meeting Meghan Markle who he married last May following a whirlwind romance
Nicolls revealed Harry's inner turmoil in her 2017 biography Harry: Life, Loss and Love
She claims the dad-to-be feared he'd be "left on the shelf" and dreaded Sunday nights home alone
MORE: Inside Meghan Markle's lavish New York baby shower After Prince William and Kate Middleton moved to Norfolk in 2014, Prince Harry became increasingly lonely and worried for his own future, Nicholls said
She wrote: "Harry felt detached, lonely, and 'rudderless', and according to a friend he dreaded Sunday nights
"He'd say, 'William's got so boring', when in fact William was living the life I think Harry wanted for himself
"I think he was worried he was going to be left on the shelf. He told me he hated being alone, especially on Sunday nights
" Nicholls says Prince Harry felt lost after his brother moved to Anmer Hall, in Norfolk, with Kate Middleton in 2014
The brothers had always been close, particularly after losing their mother, Princess Diana, so young, but the dynamic changed when the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge moved to Norfolk
Nicholls wrote: "At the time, Harry was living in Nottingham Cottage, William and Kate's former starter home at Kensington Palace
"Before Prince George's birth, the trio had lived across the courtyard from each other, and Harry was often at Nott Cott, as it was affectionately known
"(Harry) had become very close to Kate, who helped to fill some of the emotional void in his life
" While Prince Harry was happy for his brother, Nicholls claims there were feelings of resentment that William had carved out his own life
Nicholls quoted a source, who revealed: "Harry would often suffer really bad spells of loneliness
He was prone to bouts of feeling very low. "He felt he had lost his partners in crime, especially William
"He was happy that his brother was married and had a family, of course, but he missed their friendship, and at points he was very, very bitter about it
" But now Prince Harry is following in his brother's footsteps and is due to settle down and start a family with Meghan, 37
The Sussexes are due to move into Frogmore Cottage to raise their baby, following a multimillion-dollar revamp, amid rumours of a feud between Kate and Meghan
The royal brothers are also reportedly formally dividing their estates to focus on their own interests and families
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'Real Housewives of New York City' Star Tinsley Mortimer Is 'Dating' After Splitting From Scott Klut - Duration: 2:39.is still looking for her perfect match. The Real Housewives of New York City star and her on-off boyfriend,, have called it quits again, a source tells Us Weekly
According to the source, the 43-year-old Bravo star is back on the dating scene, but "isn't locked down at the moment
" "The breakup with Scott was heartbreaking for her," the source says. "All of Tinsley's friends are trying to set her up with guys, but no one serious yet
" Mortimer and Kluth were introduced by her former costar during season 9 of the reality series, which aired in 2017
Us revealed in June 2018 that the twosome had split. An insider told Us at the time that the duo had "a complicated relationship
" "She's so busy in NYC and he's so busy in Chicago that they are not exclusive right now because it's long distance," the insider said
"They've done this before, these little breaks." Shortly after Us broke the news, Mortimer confirmed pair were "on a break" during an appearance on Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen
"It's so hard to be in a relationship, particularly when we don't live in the same town," she told Andy Cohen at the time
Mortimer later revealed the duo had reconciled during the season 10 RHONY reunion, which aired in August 2018
In the trailer for season 11, however, fans see the reality star break down over her relationship
"I'm literally f—king miserable," Mortimer says through tears. In another clip in the teaser, Mortimer declares that she isn't going to move to Chicago "until I have a ring on my finger
" The Real Housewives of New York City returns to Bravo Wednesday, March 6, at 9 p
m. ET.
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Royal Uk - Amber Davies finally opens up about those Liam Payne dating rumours - Duration: 2:37.Interesting. Amber Davies has finally opened up about the rumours that she had been dating Liam Payne
It was widely reported that the former One Direction star was dating the Love Island star following Liam's split from Cheryl
However, it is not being reported that Liam has moved on from Amber Davies, with supermodel Naomi Campbell
Interestingly, Amber has denied that she's dating Liam, but fans are still speculating a previous romance
She told OK! magazine: "Liam is a genuinely lovely guy and very down to earth considering how successful he is
" "If I messaged him and asked him for advice he would give it to me, but I'm not dating him
Liam is lovely but we're just friends!" Amber also spoke about her experience on Love Island, and how she wants to build a real career
The 21-year-old is currently starring in the musical 9-5 on London's West End. She said: "Love Island shouldn't define me as a person
I know people say reality TV stars are talentless, but we're not. That's why I love that I've been given this opportunity
I love to prove people wrong!" And naturally, and interview with Amber wouldn't be complete without a word about her ex, Kem
She said: "We went through a lot together, I was so in love with him. I'll always get that nervous feeling when I see him
" Chupi is on Girls With Goals this week! Don't forget you can catch up on all episodes on Spotify now
Chupi is our new best friend on Girls With Goals this week! Don't forget you can catch up on all episodes on Spotify now
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'Teen Mom's Cory Wharton Dating 'AYTO' Star Taylor Selfridge: Exes Back Together 1 Yr. After Split - - Duration: 3:28.MTV stars, Cory Wharton and Taylor Selfridge, are back together again! Cory took to Instagram on Feb
18 to confirm the romance is back ON, and fans are feeling some type of way about it
Cory Wharton and Taylor Selfridge took to their respective Instagram Stories on Feb
18 to reveal they're taking a "baecation," confirming speculation that they're dating once again
Cory confirmed the reconciliation to Us Weekly, and said that he and Taylor, who first starred on season 5 of MTV's Are You The One, got back together "about a month" ago
The two first met on season 1 of Ex on the Beach, and briefly dated after filming wrapped (the show aired during spring 2018)
However, the fling was short-lived. Once news of Cory and Taylor's reconciliation when public, fans immediately began flooding his social media, begging him to get together with Cheyenne Floyd, the mother of his daughter, Ryder, instead
Cory and Cheyenne hooked up after filming The Challenge: Rivals III, which is when Ryder was conceived
However, they were never officially in a relationship. The pair joined the cast of Teen Mom OG in 2018, and fans have been pulling for them to be together romantically ever since
The two have an extremely amicable co-parenting relationship, but have continuously insisted that it will be nothing more than that (for now)
However, at the Teen Mom OG reunion show, which aired in Jan. 2019, both Cory and Cheyenne admitted that the possibility of them being together in the future isn't totally off the table
"I think that we can be together, but right now's not the time," Cory said. "I'm not gonna lead her on and then not be ready to marry her
" Cheyenne added that she "respected" the fact that Cory was aware enough to know he's not ready to be with her
View this post on Instagram Cory talking about how people are upset that he's dating Taylor
. #thechallengemtv A post shared by The Challenge Fanpage (@challengetea2018) on Feb 18, 2019 at 4:43pm PST Meanwhile, when Cory started getting major hate for getting back together with Cory, Cheyenne, who's in a new relationship of her own, stood up for him
"All the bashing of him and his girlfriend…you have to chill," she said on Instagram Live
"Regardless, at the end of the day, Cory is a great father to Ryder and that's all that matters
We are still friends. We will always be family." Cory also addressed the relationship on his Instagram Live, saying, "Cheyenne's a great person, a fabulous mother
I will always have some type of love for Cheyenne. But I'm not in love with Cheyenne
I'm sorry to tell you guys. I wish you guys could live my life for me, but you can't
Taylor is the person that makes me happy."
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Caroline Flack is dating lots of men - but not Bradley Simmonds, pals confirm - News Today - Duration: 3:24.Caroline Flack ISN'T dating her hunky personal trainer Bradley Simmonds, despite reports last week the pair are "head over heels" for each other
Instead, the Love Island host has been on lots of dates with different men - and happily chats to Bradley about them during their high-intensity workouts
According to friends of the 39-year-old TV presenter, Caroline is happy and in a good place after struggling with the breakdown of her relationship with fiance Andrew Brady last year
"Caroline and Bradley have never been dating, never," a pal told Mirror Online, adding that the two joked about Bradley being spotted leaving an all-day party with a mystery woman over the weekend
"He's her trainer. Caroline knew about the girl he was seen out with on Saturday because they chat about everything
"They're really good friends, they just talk about everything. Caroline even joked with pals yesterday that Bradley had had a big weekend
" And, after the Mirror broke the news that Caroline had been spotted snogging the face off Strictly Come Dancing professional AJ Pritchard at the National Television Awards last month, it seems the Flackster has discovered a new lease of life
"She is dating, she's in a good place. It's not one particular person, it's just dates here and there," the pal went on
"She's not a serial dater or anything - she's keeping it all close to her chest though, just having a bit of fun
" Her whirlwind relationship with Celebrity Big Brother star Andrew last year crashed and burned over reports of their constant rowing, and Caroline took their eventual split hard
"It was quite hard with the break-ups last year, but then she had Chicago and she found a new strength doing that," said her friend
"She came out of that run high on life again, she just goes with the flow. "She's spending a lot of time with family and with her girlfriends - there's the odd date here and there but like anyone who's just come out of a relationship, she's taking things easy
" Caroline recently confirmed she's ditched the booze in the wake of her split , and started hitting up the gym in a bid to heal her mental health
"Before I started this, I didn't realise how much sugar and fat I was eating. And I couldn't really cook before, but I've had to learn
See? I'm all grown-up now," she told Women's Health magazine last month. "The best thing about all of this is how I feel
"I didn't realise how much it would change my mindset. Before if I'd had a stressful day, I'd go to meet my friends in the pub and have a moan
"Now I go to yoga. It really suits my head – I'm someone who talks fast, thinks fast, makes decisions fast
Now I'm trying to go slower and give myself time before I say yes," she added. Mirror Online has contacted Caroline's rep for comment
Read More More on Caroline Flack
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'Teen Mom's Cory Wharton Dating 'AYTO' Star Taylor Selfridge: Exes Back Together 1 Yr. After Split - Duration: 3:28.MTV stars, Cory Wharton and Taylor Selfridge, are back together again! Cory took to Instagram on Feb
18 to confirm the romance is back ON, and fans are feeling some type of way about it
Cory Wharton and Taylor Selfridge took to their respective Instagram Stories on Feb
18 to reveal they're taking a "baecation," confirming speculation that they're dating once again
Cory confirmed the reconciliation to Us Weekly, and said that he and Taylor, who first starred on season 5 of MTV's Are You The One, got back together "about a month" ago
The two first met on season 1 of Ex on the Beach, and briefly dated after filming wrapped (the show aired during spring 2018)
However, the fling was short-lived. Once news of Cory and Taylor's reconciliation when public, fans immediately began flooding his social media, begging him to get together with Cheyenne Floyd, the mother of his daughter, Ryder, instead
Cory and Cheyenne hooked up after filming The Challenge: Rivals III, which is when Ryder was conceived
However, they were never officially in a relationship. The pair joined the cast of Teen Mom OG in 2018, and fans have been pulling for them to be together romantically ever since
The two have an extremely amicable co-parenting relationship, but have continuously insisted that it will be nothing more than that (for now)
However, at the Teen Mom OG reunion show, which aired in Jan. 2019, both Cory and Cheyenne admitted that the possibility of them being together in the future isn't totally off the table
"I think that we can be together, but right now's not the time," Cory said. "I'm not gonna lead her on and then not be ready to marry her
" Cheyenne added that she "respected" the fact that Cory was aware enough to know he's not ready to be with her
View this post on Instagram Cory talking about how people are upset that he's dating Taylor
. #thechallengemtv A post shared by The Challenge Fanpage (@challengetea2018) on Feb 18, 2019 at 4:43pm PST Meanwhile, when Cory started getting major hate for getting back together with Cory, Cheyenne, who's in a new relationship of her own, stood up for him
"All the bashing of him and his girlfriend…you have to chill," she said on Instagram Live
"Regardless, at the end of the day, Cory is a great father to Ryder and that's all that matters
We are still friends. We will always be family." Cory also addressed the relationship on his Instagram Live, saying, "Cheyenne's a great person, a fabulous mother
I will always have some type of love for Cheyenne. But I'm not in love with Cheyenne
I'm sorry to tell you guys. I wish you guys could live my life for me, but you can't
Taylor is the person that makes me happy."
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